Thursday, October 25, 2012

Parshas Lech Lecha - Strings Attached


Parshas Lech Lecha



Strings Attached
By: Daniel Listhaus

וַיֹּאמֶר אַבְרָם אֶל מֶלֶךְ סְדֹם הֲרִימֹתִי יָדִי אֶל הֹ' קל עֶלְיוֹן קֹנֵה שָׁמַיִם וָאָרֶץ: אִם מִחוּט וְעַד שְׂרוֹךְ נַעַל וְאִם אֶקַּח מִכָּל אֲשֶׁר לָךְ וְלֹא תֹאמַר אֲנִי הֶעֱשַׁרְתִּי אֶת אַבְרָם: בִּלְעָדַי רַק אֲשֶׁר אָכְלוּ הַנְּעָרִים וְחֵלֶק הָאֲנָשִׁים אֲשֶׁר הָלְכוּ אִתִּי עָנֵר אֶשְׁכֹּל וּמַמְרֵא הֵם יִקְחוּ חֶלְקָם

Avram said to the king of Sodom: “I have raised my hand to Hashem, G-d, the Most High, Maker of heaven and earth; if so much as a thread or a shoe-strap, or if I shall take from anything that us yours! So you shall not say, 'It is I who made Avram rich'. Far from me! Only what the young men have eaten, and the share of the men who accompanied me....”
-Lech Lecha 14:22-24

This week's parsha is devoted to Avraham avinu's life. Even reading through the passukim (verses) on the most basic level, one gains tremendous insight as to how a Jew should live life. Avraham was the true ba'al chesed and ba'al middos – in the truest meaning of the words. “Ba'al” means a master; and Avraham was truly a master of kindness and good traits1.

The parsha describes that it was not long after the dispute and separation of ways between Lot and Avraham, that Lot was taken captive and in desperate need of Avraham's help.2 In order to save his brother-in-law3, Lot, from captivity, Avraham joined in on the World War which was occurring at the time. With Hashem on his side, Avraham, and his servant Eliezer4, miraculously defeated the enemy.

After winning the war, there were many prisoners and assets. The king of Sodom told Avraham, “Give me the people and take the possessions for yourself”5. However, Avraham turned down the offer and swore that he would not take even a thread or a shoelace6. The passuk itself explains that the reason that Avraham did not want anything to do with the spoils of the war was because he did not want the king of Sodom to be able to say, “It was I who made Avraham rich”. Avraham was someone who believed that his whole existence was for nothing other than to sanctify Hashem's name throughout the world and spread monotheism. Therefore he wanted to make sure that there would be no openings for flawed thinking that Avraham needed anyone but Hashem.
The Gemara7 tells us that because of this speech that Avraham said to the king of Sodom, refusing to take even a thread or a shoelace, he was zocheh (merited) to two things: the mitzva of tefillin and the mitzva of techeiles – the blue-dyed tzitzis string which is put on each corner of the tzitzis-garment.

However, this presents itself with a problem. In parshas Noach, after the flood was finally over and the waters settled, the Torah relates that when Noach and his family came out of the teivah (ark) the first thing he did was planted a vineyard8. This ultimately resulted in Noach getting drunk and uncovering himself. The passukim there describe that Noach's son, Shem, exerted himself and went to cover his father. Rashi9 writes that in this zechus, the descendents of Shem merited the mitzva of tzitzis.

The Sifsei Chachomim10 asks the obvious contradiction: Who merited to the mitzva of tzitzis – Shem or Avraham? Rashi in parshas Noach seems sure that Shem merited the mitzva as a reward for what he did for his father. Yet, the Gemara states that it was Avraham who merited the mitzva of tzitzis?

To answer this question, the Sifsei Chachomim explains as follows. There are two different elements to the mitzva of tzitzis, the four-cornered garment itself and the tzitzis-strings (specifically that of techeiles). Shem merited that we, his descendents, receive the mitzva of wearing a four-cornered garment, whereas Avraham merited for us that we were to receive the mitzva of techeiles.

This Sifsei Chachomim is very difficult to comprehend. The mitzva of wearing a tallis (the four-cornered garment) and the mitzva of wearing tzitzis are not two separate items. There is nothing inherently special about a four-cornered garment other than the fact that it is only this type of clothing that we put tzitzis on. At the same time, there is nothing uniquely special about techeiles/tzitzis, except for when they are on a tallis. If one were to hang strings around his ears, certainly one would not be fulfilling the mitzva of tzitzis. How could the Sifsei Chachomim be viewing these two aspects of tzitzis as independent entities? Clearly Shem's zechus means nothing without Avraham's, and Avraham's zechus especially means nothing without Shem's. Why is it that Avraham merited something which is dependent on wearing a four-cornered garment? Why did Hashem divide up what appears to be only one mitzva?

Additionally, there is another problem we must consider. As mentioned, the passuk and Rashi in this week's parsha writes that the reason that Avraham turned down even a thread or a shoelace was because he did not want the king of Sodom to be able to say, “It was I who made Avraham wealthy”. However, Rashi's explanation in the aforementioned Gemara is different. Rashi in the Gemara writes that the reason that Avraham avinu turned down the treasures of the war was because he did not want to benefit from stolen goods. How could we understand this contradiction in Rashi?

In order to better understand all of this, we must realize the deeper meaning behind what the tallis and tzitzis symbolize. As we discussed last week,11 the main reason for the flood was because the world was filled with robbery. Robbery has two aspects to it. One aspect is the fact that one is dishonoring his friend by stealing from him. The other aspect is the fact that stealing from others shows lack of trust and faith in Hashem. The cause for the flood was because of robbery – and specifically the bein adom l'chaveiro (between man and his friend) aspect of robbery. The world was too full of the attitude of “What's mine is mine, and what's yours is mine”12.

Although it is physically impossible for a person to transgress on only one aspect of robbery without the other, it is still clear that it was this aspect of bein adom l'chaveiro alone which brought about the flood, and not the combination of that with the bein adom l'makom (between man and Hashem) aspect of it – that a thief has basic lack of faith in Hashem. The proof to this comes from the end of parshas Noach. The passukim at the end of parshas Noach testify to the fact that the whole world was “of one language and of unified words”13. There was actually peace among all of the people in the world. When they gathered together to declare war against Hashem, so to speak, by building the Migdal Bavel (Tower of Babylon), their punishment was not to be wiped out. Rather, Hashem decreed that their languages become confused so that they would not have the ability to continue with their evil plan. Rashi14 remarks that from this contrast in parshas Noach, we could learn that bein adom l'chaveiro is something that is needed, at least on a basic level, in order for the world to exist – otherwise, we deserve to be destroyed with a mabul (flood). Bein adom l'makom, however, as tremendously important as it is second tier. It is necessary to have bein adom l'makom in order to live the right and proper life, but not required to merely exist on the lowest of levels. At the same time, bein adom l'makom is dependent on bein adom l'chaveiro. It is impossible for a person who does not practice the latter to achieve the former. These two aspects go hand-in-hand with each other, similar to that which is alluded to in the two-part passuk, “Turn from evil, and do good”15. Just like it is necessary to first turn away from evil before building up to do good, so too it is necessary to have bein adom l'chaveiro in place before being ready to work on bein adom l'makom.

Shem was the first one in the new world who fully grasped the mistakes of the generation before the mabul, internalized the lessons, and perfected his bein adom l'chaveiro. He was the one who exerted himself to find a proper garment to clothe his father; for this, he merited the mitzva of tallis. The tallis represents the level of da'as (knowledge) we have over animals. Animals do not wear clothing, people do.16 This is because as people, created b'tzelem Elokim (in the image of Hashem), we understand that there is a degree of kavod ha'briyos (respect for mankind) which every person has the right to receive and the responsibility to give to and ensure for others.

Avraham avinu took this all to the next level. He too was known for his chesed (kindness) and care for others. However, he developed his middos to extend to the ultimate form of bein adom l'makom. He accepted upon himself the job of being the role model for the entire world, and used his influence to spread ratzon Hashem. Avraham did this above and beyond. Surely, after the war that took place, everyone was aware of the miracles that the G-d of Avraham performed for him. Yet, Avraham passed up the offer of the treasures from the war and instead used the opportunity to declare his pure trust in Hashem. He did not even want to take the risk of keeping a shoelace, for perhaps that would give the king of Sodom the slight opening to say that it was he who caused Avraham to become wealthy. Rashi in the Gemara tells us that Avraham did not want to benefit from stolen goods. Perhaps Rashi does not mean stolen in the sense that they were stolen from people and represented a lack in bein adom l'chaveiro, because that is not true.17 Avraham would have done nothing wrong by taking the spoils of way; they were rightfully his. Rather, perhaps Rashi is referring to the other facet of robbery – the robbing of an opportunity to make a kiddush-Hashem by not using an opportunity to show what it means to have complete faith and trust in Hashem.
In this way, Avraham meticulously kept the utmost degree of kavod (honor of) Hashem. For this, the Gemara tells us, Avraham merited that his children receive the mitzvos of tefillin and techeiles/tzitzis. The tefillin that we wear each day is a means of literally tying the most essential elements of Judaism to ourselves. The parshiyos contained within declare the unity of Hashem and our acceptance of His mitzvos – two sides of the same coin - the ways we achieve kavod Hashem. Techeiles also represents the Oneness of Hashem. The Gemara18 tells us, the blue-dyed techeiles reminds us of the sea, which resembles the sky, which cause us to think of the Kisei Ha'kavod (the Throne of Glory) of Hashem.

These two aspects – bein adom l'chaveiro and bein adom l'makom, go hand in hand. After all, respect of man is a degree of respect of Hashem, since man was created b'tzelem Elokim. Now perhaps we could understand why Shem and Avraham each merited what they did, and why Avraham's zechus of techeilis was dependent upon Shem's tallis. We, the descendents of Shem and Avraham, need to realize the importance of bein adom l'chaveiro and bein adom l'makom and perfect ourselves in these areas

Bein adom l'chaveiro and bein adom l'makom are two essential elements in keeping this world in existence. This is the lesson that Shimon HaTzaddik teaches us in Pirkei Avos:19 “On three things the world depends: On Torah study, the service of Hashem, and on bestowing kindness upon others...”. Torah represents the relationship we build with our inner-self (the neshama). Avodah (service of Hashem), is the means which we serve Hashem through bein adom l'makom. Finally, Chesed is our relationship with others and the necessary requirement to respect each others' feelings and property.

May Hashem help us remember the combined actions and lessons of Avraham and Shem every time we wear tzitzis, and internalize these two essential elements of bein adom l'chaveiro and bein adom l'makom.
1Rashi in Beraishis 17:1 writes that Hashem added an extra letter to Avram's name making it Avraham. The gematriya (numerical value) of his new name totals to 248, equal to the number of body parts. This is quite proper because Avraham was someone who worked on bringing himself closer to Hashem and used his entire body for tahara (pureness) and kedusha (holiness).
2Beraishis 14:14
3Lot was the brother of Sarah. He was also Avraham's nephew, just as Sarah was his niece, because he was the son of Avraham's brother, Haran.
4The passuk (Beraishis 14:14) describes that Avraham went with 318 men. Rashi there comments, though, that this refers only to Eliezer and 318 is the gematriya (numerical value) of his name.
5Beraishis 14:21
6Beraishis 14:22-23
7Chulin 89a as well as Sotah 17a
8Beraishis 9:20-24
9Rashi Beraishis 9:23
10Beraishis 9:23
11See my d'var Torah on Parshas Noach - “Better Bitter”
12Pirkei Avos 5:13 – The mishna calls such a person a “rasha” (wicked person)
13Beraishis 11:1
14Beraishis 11:9
15Psalms 34:15
16As a matter of fact, this is the first thing that Adam and Chava did after eating from the Eitz Ha'da'aas (Tree of Knowledge) – they clothed themselves (Beraishis 32:7)
17See Mahar'sha in Gemara Chulin 89a, who proves that the spoils of the war truly belonged to Avraham. Additionally, despite the fact that the treasures already belonged to Avraham, the king of Sodom was giving it all to him anyway.
18Chulin 89a
19Pirkei Avos 1:2

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