Friday, July 11, 2014

Parshas Pinchas - Core Credentials

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Pinchas

Core Credentials
וַיְדַבֵּר משֶׁה אֶל ה' לֵאמֹר: יִפְקֹד ה' אֱלֹקי הָרוּחֹת לְכָל בָּשָׂר אִישׁ עַל הָעֵדָה: אֲשֶׁר יֵצֵא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יָבֹא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יוֹצִיאֵם וַאֲשֶׁר יְבִיאֵם וְלֹא תִהְיֶה עֲדַת ה' כַּצֹּאן אֲשֶׁר אֵין לָהֶם רֹעֶה: וַיֹּאמֶר ה' אֶל משֶׁה קַח לְךָ אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בִּן נוּן אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר רוּחַ בּוֹ וְסָמַכְתָּ אֶת יָדְךָ עָלָיו: וְהַעֲמַדְתָּ אֹתוֹ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה וְצִוִּיתָה אֹתוֹ לְעֵינֵיהֶם: וְנָתַתָּה מֵהוֹדְךָ עָלָיו לְמַעַן יִשְׁמְעוּ כָּל עֲדַת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל: וְלִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן יַעֲמֹד וְשָׁאַל לוֹ בְּמִשְׁפַּט הָאוּרִים לִפְנֵי ה' עַל פִּיו יֵצְאוּ וְעַל פִּיו יָבֹאוּ הוּא וְכָל בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אִתּוֹ וְכָל הָעֵדָה: וַיַּעַשׂ משֶׁה כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּה ה' אֹתוֹ וַיִּקַּח אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ וַיַּעֲמִדֵהוּ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה: וַיִּסְמֹךְ אֶת יָדָיו עָלָיו וַיְצַוֵּהוּ כַּאֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר ה' בְּיַד משֶׁה

“Moshe spoke to Hashem, saying, 'May Hashem, G-d of the spirits of all flesh, appoint a man over the assembly, who shall go out before them and come in before them, who shall take them out and who shall bring them in; and let the assembly of Hashem not be like sheep that have no shepherd.' Hashem said to Moshe, 'Take to yourself Yehoshua son of Nun, a man in whom there is spirit, and lean your hand upon him. You shall stand him before Elazar the kohen and before the entire assembly, and command him before their eyes. You shall place of your splendor upon him, so that the entire assembly of the Children of Israel will pay heed. Before Elazar the kohen shall he stand, and he shall inquire of him of the judgment of the Urim before Hashem; by his word shall they go out and by his word shall they come in, he and all the Children of Israel with him, and the entire assemble.' Moshe did as Hashem had commanded him. He took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar the kohen and ind before the entire assembly. He leaned his hands upon him and commanded him, as Hashem had spoken through Moshe.”
-Pinchas 27:16-23

Hashem reminded Moshe that because of his sin with hitting the rock, he would not be allowed to enter Eretz Yisroel. Therefore, a new leader had to be appointed. The new leader would have to be one capable of following in Moshe's footsteps and leading a stubborn B'nei Yisroel out of the midbar (desert) and into their next stage of conquering Eretz Yisroel. If we take the moment to read through the passukim carefully, listening to the conversation between Hashem and Moshe, we will find what the Torah values most when it comes to looking for someone capable of leading the nation of Hashem.

The Torah1 relates when Moshe davened (prayed) to Hashem to ask that He appoint a suitable successor, Moshe referred to Hashem as “elokei ha'ruchos (G-d of the spirits). Rashi2 explains that by using this expression, he was in fact davening: “Master of the World! The personality of each individual is revealed before You; they do not resemble each other. Appoint a leader who can put up with each individual according to his personality.”

It is fascinating that if one stands two people alongside each other and analyzes their features part by part, it is often very difficult to figure out which part is so drastically different that the people should have such unique features. Yet, it is a fact that people look different from one another. Chazal tell us based on the Gemara3 that just as our faces are not the same, neither are our minds. Each person sees things in a different light from a different perspective. Some thoughts may be similar while others will contrast as much as black and white. A proper leader must be able to appreciate each person's unique personality and be able to deal with each individual appropriately. His task is the ultimate challenge of receiving people b'seiver panim yafos4 Not merely always smiling or always serious, but rather “b'seiver”. A leader must put thought into his countenance depending on each individual, case by case. This is one quality which Moshe stresses as being of utmost importance. Someone placed in an authoritative position leading a group and wanting to help them grow, must be able to be in-tuned to the different dynamics that by definition exists and varies based on each individual, and be able to wisely deal with each one accordingly.

Moshe continues his tefillah (prayer) saying that the leader should be one who shall go out before them and come in before them. Rashi5 explains that Moshe was saying the following: “Hashem, may You choose a leader who does not act in the manner of the kings of the other nations who sit in their palaces and send their armies off to war, but rather act as I [Moshe] did, for I did battle against Sichon and Og.”


From this part of Moshe's tefillah we gather a second equally important attribute a leader must have, namely he must practice what he preaches. It is very easy to lecture and give commands and then sit back and watch as they get done, or disciple when they do not get accomplished. However, such behavior is less than insufficient, it is counter-productive. It gives quite a mixed message when the one preaching does not act as such himself, and it creates, whether consciously or subconsciously, a definite confusion and possibly even a strong dislike or hatred to the one giving the orders. A true leader does not ask of things he does not do himself. If he is asking his subjects to go to war, he will lead them into the war himself. If he is suggesting ways of living, he will follow them as well. This is true even in a general sense of leading, and so much more when the leader has the responsibility of relating the commands of Hashem.


Continuing the narrative in the Torah, the next couple of passukim relate what Hashem responded to Moshe. Rashi6 states that Hashem told Moshe to take Yehoshua with words, meaning, that Moshe should say to him how fortunate and privileged he is to lead the children of Hashem. Yet, it is only one passuk7 later when Hashem continues to tell Moshe to warn his successor that the job of leading B'nei Yisroel is not an easy one. As Rashi8 describes: B'nei Yisroel are troublesome and uncooperative.


Along these lines, there is an old joke that a United States President phoned the Israeli Prime Minister and started complaining about how difficult it was being president over a country of people and having to hear the constant complaints and being blamed for everything. The Israeli Prime Minister replied, “Big deal. You only need to be president over a country full of people. I need to be president over a country full of presidents.”


B'nei Yisroel is a hard nation to lead, and anyone who leads B'nei Yisroel should be reminded of this and that if they are to accept the position, an understanding of this is imperative just as Hashem told Moshe to forewarn Yehoshua appropriately. However, the correct mindset that goes along with it is not a huge sigh, but rather as Rashi puts so beautifully, “You are fortunate, for you are privileged to lead the children of G-d!” A pure-hearted leader of K'lal Yisroel does not get tired out from helping the people and putting up with all the nonsense because in the end of the day there is a drive which surpasses it all, and that is the amazing privilege of being in a position of leading the children of Hashem. This is the mindset necessary to be a good leader of B'nei Yisroel.
The next passuk9 continues Hashem's instructions to Moshe regarding appointing a new leader. Hashem tells Moshe to place his splendor upon his successor. Rashi10 elaborates that Moshe's face was like the sun and Yehoshua's face was like the moon. Besides for the pashut p'shat (simple explanation) fact that Hashem was stating that there will never be a navi (prophet) or leader as great as Moshe rabbeinu, there is perhaps another underlying point being hinted to here. The moon does not give off its own light, but rather just reflects what it is able to get from the sun. Perhaps with this moshol (parable) we could extract yet another vital property of a Jewish leader. It may be true that as generations go on, the light that the moon reflects gets less and less, however the most important aspect is that it is reflecting its light from the sun. No matter the “qualifications” of a leader, the ultimate qualification is the fact he has a rebbe and a mesorah (tradition) going up to Moshe rabbeinu. Someone who self-declares himself as being smart enough to lead is foolish and is missing the most critical qualifier of having a rebbe with a mesorah. One must not be a leader with his own light but rather that which reflects off the sun. This is yet another vital factor in choosing a leader for K'lal Yisroel, which we learn from Hashem's conversation with Moshe.


The Torah11 concludes this segment by describing that Moshe did exactly as Hashem commanded him and took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar Ha'Kohen. Moshe then leaned his hands on Yehoshua – giving him the first semicha in history – and commanded him everything Hashem told him. Rashi12 points out that really, Hashem commanded Moshe to lean his hand on Yehoshua, yet the Torah accounts that Moshe leaned his hands on Yehoshua, more than Hashem commanded him, as if to demonstrate that he was generously overfilling Yehoshua to the brim with his wisdom.


The Kli Yakar13 asks that according to Rashi's explanation that Moshe in fact did more than he was commanded, how could Moshe have done so? Isn't that an issue of bal tosef – the negative commandment to add to mitzvos? If Hashem gives a commandment with a specific number then we are not allowed to add to that. For example, on Succos we are commanded to bring four species. Not three and not five. So if Hashem commanded Moshe to lean one hand, how could he have leaned both his hands?


The Kli Yakar offers the following answer which givers further insight into the responsibility of a Jewish leader. The Kli Yakar writes that Moshe was to lean his hand in the same way as we find by karbanos (offerings). In the parsha of karbanos, the Torah also uses the singular form to describe the kohen leaning his hand on the animal, yet in practice it describes Aharon leaning both his hands on the karbon. Moshe replicated the form of the commandment and practice as mentioned by the karbonos at the time of appointing Yehoshua in order to demonstrate that the role of the leader is to bear the burden of the various sins and mistakes of the nation. Just as the karbon must carry the burden of the aveiros (sins), so too a leader of K'lal Yisroel must be willing to be responsible for everyone under his care.


Perhaps there is even an additional message which could be gleaned from this Rashi and Kli Yakar. A leader must be there purely for the people and not for any selfish purpose whatsoever. If one stops for a moment and thinks about political positions, when a mayor, governor, or president must give up his position after a complete term or by being voted out, one will never find him truly wishing that his successor do as good a job as he. Each president wants to be the one to be remembered and wants to take up the biggest section in the history books. Often to try to achieve this politicians will bad-mouth their successors or sarcastically challenge them to do as good a job. However, those are properties of a bad person and very far from the characteristics of a good leader. A good leader wishes only for the ultimate success of the people. This means that a good leader would do all he could to try to find a successor that is just as good or better than himself so that he could pass on his charge of taking care of the people he loves to a suitable person. Perhaps this is yet another idea being pointed out by the Torah and Rashi, that Moshe was someone who truly loved and cared for the B'nei Yisroel, therefore, as depressing as it was to have to give up his position and prepare to face death, Moshe put both hands on Yehoshua to express that he wanted to give him everything he had with a beracha (blessing) that Yehoshua have the capacity of strength and wisdom to lead K'lal Yisroel like Moshe himself.
The mishna14 states that there are four types of people who give tzedaka. The first is someone who is willing to give tzedaka (charity) but wishes that no one else does. The mishna refers to such a person as begrudging of others. Here is a person who looks like he is doing a nice thing by giving tzedaka but it is clearly for only selfish reasons. The proof is in the fact that he does not want others to give. He cares more about being in the spotlight, than the poor people having food to eat. He couldn't care less about the poor people; if he did he would encourage others to give as well. The same thing is true when it comes to a leader. A good leader wants only what is best for his people. If there is someone else helping him lead and doing a good job, he should not be jealous, because as long as the people are benefiting, he should be happy. Someone who tries to undermine the good of others is clearly not a leader but rather a haughty person who wants to steal the spotlight.


When we speak of leaders, the term is not limited to a king or president of countries or nations. Rather, a leader in K'lal Yisroel includes anyone of influence whether a friend, mentor, camp counselor, rebbe, rav, or community leader. The group could be big, it could be small; it could be a less involved role or a more aggressive one. It could be at work, or in school; with frum people, or ones needing kiruv. No matter the details, the guidelines from this week's parsha apply all the same. A key leader is someone who has a rebbe with a mesorah and understands and cares deeply for every individual in his sphere of influence; and despite the trouble and white hairs that are bound to come, he remains driven with the privilege he has to be involved with the growth and helping of Hashem's children. He is also more than happy to bear the responsibilities that come with his role without any jealousy of those who are capable of inputting productively.


May Hashem help us realize our own spheres of influence and guide the leaders of K'lal Yisroel along the mindset of Moshe as he placed his hands on Yehoshua.

1Bamidbar 27:16
2Rashi ibid.
3Berachos 58a
4See Mishna Avos 1:15
5Rashi Bamidbar 27:17
6Rashi Bamidbar 27:18
7Bamidbar 27:19
8Rashi ibid.
9Bamidbar 27:20
10Rashi Bamidbar 27:20
11Bamidbar 27:22-23
12Rashi Bamidbar 27:23
13Bamidbar 27:18

14Avos 5:16

Friday, July 4, 2014

Parshas Balak - A Weapon of Mass Construction

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Balak



A Weapon of Mass Construction

וַיִּשְׁלַח מַלְאָכִים אֶל בִּלְעָם בֶּן בְּעוֹר פְּתוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר עַל הַנָּהָר אֶרֶץ בְּנֵי עַמּוֹ לִקְרֹא לוֹ לֵאמֹר הִנֵּה עַם יָצָא מִמִּצְרַיִם הִנֵּה כִסָּה אֶת עֵין הָאָרֶץ וְהוּא ישֵׁב מִמֻּלִי: וְעַתָּה לְכָה נָּא אָרָה לִּי אֶת הָעָם הַזֶּה כִּי
עָצוּם הוּא מִמֶּנִּי אוּלַי אוּכַל נַכֶּה בּוֹ וַאֲגָרְשֶׁנּוּ מִן הָאָרֶץ כִּי יָדַעְתִּי אֵת אֲשֶׁר תְּבָרֵךְ מְבֹרָךְ וַאֲשֶׁר תָּאֹר יוּאָר

“He [Balak] sent messengers to Billam son of Beor to Pesor, which by the river of the land of the members of his people, to summon him, saying, 'Behold! A people has come out of Egypt and it rests opposite me. So now – please come and invoke a curse upon this people for me, for it is more powerful than me; perhaps I will succeed, we will strike at it and I will drive it away from the land. For I know that whomever you bless is blessed and whoever you invoke a curse upon is accursed.'”
-Balak 22:5-6

Rashi1 describes that Balak, king of Midyan, had an arrangement with Sichon and Og, kings of the Amorite. The Midyan and Moav territories used to pay a tax to the Amorite for them to protect their borders. When Balak saw that Sichon and Og were unable to stand up against B'nei Yisroel, he immediately realized that he would definitely not stand a chance. Balak therefore called upon Billam, the sorcerer, to use his powers to curse B'nei Yisroel out of existence. The passuk (verse)2 describes that Hashem Himself told Billam that his mission would be a complete failure because Hashem would not allow Billam to curse His blessed nation. Yet, Billam was obstinate and continued on his way riding his donkey. The Torah3 tells us that Hashem was furious that Billam decided to keep going and He sent a malach (angel) to stand on the path with a drawn sword in its hand. Rashi4 comments that the malach took a sword because it reasoned the following: “This evil one [Billam] put aside the tools of his craft, for the weapon of goyim is the sword, and instead he comes against them with his mouth, which is the craft of the B'nei Yisroel. I too shall grab that which is his, and I shall come against him with his own craft.” This is why the malach chose to threaten Billam with a sword, and in fact, Billam's ultimate death was by sword.5

The difference of craft between Jews and goyim is one which was present and noted all the way back during the time of Yaakov and Eisav. When Yaakov pretended to be Eisav in order to accept the berachos (blessings) from Yitzchak, Yitzchak exclaimed, “Ha'kol kol Yaakov, v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav”6 (The voice is the voice of Yaakov, but the hands are those of Eisav). Rashi7 comments that the very way Yaakov spoke was different. He spoke pleasantly and nicely, and this was something unique t to Yaakov, which Eisav was lacking. After all, as the Kli Yakar8 elaborates, the passuk cannot merely mean that the voice itself gave it away because if Yaakov really sounded different than Eisav then it would have clear it was Yaakov. Rather, the Torah is informing us that although they sounded similar, their tone and manners while speaking were quite different from each other.

The Kli Yakar there continues and says that the passuk deliberately puts “ha'kol kol Yaakov” before “v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav” to allude to the fact that as long as Yaakov holds onto his power of kol, Eisav's weapon of yadayim is utterly powerless.

Our weapon is our mouth which connects the worlds of gashmiyus and ruchniyus. It is literally our peh – the opening and portal between the synchronized dimensions of spirituality and physicality. Eating is a physical activity, but reciting a beracha (blessing) before and after gives it more of a purpose. The power that people, and particularly Jews have with speech is beyond our comprehension. Declaring things as hekdesh, reciting berachos, testifying, making shevuos (oaths), and stating when the new month begins are just some of the many things we have the power to do with speech. These examples are more than rules and customs, they are examples of real things that even have an effect on physical nature based on our power of speech. Of course, this list is far from complete without davening and learning Torah which are the ultimate ways of connecting directly to Hashem through our thoughts and speech.

As is the case by all things which are important to do, there is a strong yetzer harah to not maintain a kol Yaakov. In the world in general, lashon harrah, improper speech, and inappropriate language, are quite acceptable. When we are secluded from it, it is easier to stay away but unfortunately this often becomes exponentially difficult and more tempting during the summer when there is a general laxness in the atmosphere that we do not have to keep to our year-round standards, and when time is spent with other crowds of people who sometimes cause a negative peer pressure.

The most important thing is to not be moreh heter (rationalize) to ourselves and say what could be so bad already about a curse here or an inappropriate comment there; for it is a pretty serious matter indeed. The Gemara9 discusses when one is obligated to give up his life instead of transgressing certain mitzvos. The famous part of the Gemara is the part where it mentions that the three cardinal sins: idol worship, illicit relations, and murder are what fall under this category. However, the less-quoted part of the Gemara is a few lines later where the Gemara qualifies that the whole discussion of the Gemara is only by times where it is a personal force or where the aveirah (sin) would take place in private. However, says the Gemara, if the aveirah is one which society as a whole or government is enforcing, or if even not but the aveirah is in public, then even for a “mitzvah kallah (literally: a light mitzva), one must allow himself to be killed rather than transgress. The Gemara then asks, “What is a 'minor mitzvah'?” and answers that it refers even to a case where a Jew is ordered to change his shoelace. The rishonim10 explain that the Gemara refers to cities where the goyim wore a less modest color shoelace or form of tying their shoelace. In such a city if one was publicly forced to wear such a shoelace or tie it in such a fashion, or even forced to do so in private – but by the government, he would be obligated to give up his life and not transgress on following after the ways of the goyim.

It is hard to imagine the extent of immodesty possible to breach with a shoelace, but nonetheless, the Gemara clearly says that even such a light mitzva of being forced to wear shoelaces in the way of the goyim is something to give up one's life for if forced in public or by the government.

After hearing the horrible news this past Monday that the three kidnapped boys in Israel were indeed murdered, many wondered why Hashem put us all through 18 days of pain along with their families in the complete dark? If they were killed right away in cold blood for not even a ransom, why didn't Hashem arrange for the Israeli army to be able to discover the bodies right away and save us the added misery of not knowing what happened to them? The answer that many concluded on their own is that for Jews across the spectrum, those 18 days was a time of realization that Hashem is really the only One we depend on to fight our fights, and that we have the privilege of a direct access pass to Hashem through the power of our mouth utilizing our tools of davening, learning and being mekabel (accepting) Shabbos early as a zechus (merit) for the boys. Now, the biggest zechus for their neshamos would be if we capitalized on the lesson Hashem taught us during those 18 days and used the summer to fight our personal yetzer harah and instead work extra hard on keeping our thoughts and mouth clean of dirty thoughts and language in order for them to be cleansed and prepared as proper vehicles to learn and daven to Hashem.

There is no doubt that there is a strong current in the direction of following the norms of the world and lowering our standards. However, we must understand the severity of doing so. The Gemara may seem extreme to us when it says to give up one's life for a shoelace, because we have fallen so much past that, but we should at least take the equivalent of what we do which is too similar to the “ya'dayim y'dei Eisav” which we should accept upon ourselves to stay far away from as if we would have to give up our lives not to transgress. In this way we could each properly reset our minds and mouths in order that we be able to maximize its potential as a weapon of mass construction.



1Bamidbar 22:2
2Bamidbar 22:12 and see also 22:18 where Billam conveys this to Balak's men
3Bamidbar 22:22
4Bamidbar 22:23
5Bamidbar 31:8
6Beraishis 27:22
7Rashi ibid.
8Ibid.
9Sanhedrin 74a-74b

10For example see Rashi ibid.
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