Friday, December 13, 2013

Parshas Vayechi - What Does The Fox Say?

Parshas Vayechi
What Does the Fox Say?
By: Daniel Listhaus

וַיֹּאמֶר הִשָּׁבְעָה לִי וַיִּשָּׁבַע לוֹ וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל עַל רֹאשׁ הַמִּטָּה

And he [Yaakov] said, 'Swear to me,' and he [Yosef] swore to him; and Yisroel [i.e – Yaakov] prostrated himself toward the head of the bed.
-Vayechi 47:31

At 147 years old, Yaakov understood that his time on Earth was running out. The Torah1 tells us that at this point he became concerned that Pharoah and the Mitzriyim (Egyptians) would give his family trouble when it would come time to taking Yaakov's body out of Mitzrayim (Egypt) to bury in Ma'aras Ha'machpeilah (Cave of Machpeilah).2 He therefore called for Yosef who had the ability to act in order to make sure that Yosef would take the responsibility to ensure that there would be no issues.3 The Torah4 tells us that after Yosef swore to Yaakov that he would take care of the burial, Yaakov bowed to Yosef. Rashi5, quoting the Gemara6, comments that when a fox is at his time of greatness, bow to him.
What is the lesson that Rashi here is teaching us? Certainly Rashi is not teaching us that it is okay to “kiss up” to people in high positions. Presumably, such a suggestion would be counter to the Torah's perspective. The Orchos Tzadikkim7 writes that usually we are tasked to be humble, however when it comes to standing up to people doing inappropriate things we do not hesitate to firmly stay with the Torah and do whatever it takes to show that we disagree. Furthermore, the Orchos Tzadikkim8 writes that to stay silent or to encourage such behavior is a form of horrible flattery and is as if you are condoning the actions done. So, clearly this expression of bowing to the fox at its time of power cannot refer to where the fox is in a position he does not belong or in a case where the fox is doing something improper, for in such scenarios it would not be permissible to humble oneself. So, what is this Rashi telling us? What does Yosef have to do with a fox in a position of power? And why is it at this particular point that Yaakov bows to Yosef, as opposed to when Yosef first enters into the room when Yaakov called for him?

The Gemara9 states that Rebbe Meir had 300 parables that he used to say, but now we only have three. Rashi10 there combines the parables into one big one and describes it as follows: There was once a fox who tricked a wolf into going into the local Jewish community on a Friday and told him to try to help them prepare for Shabbos and then join them for a meal. When the wolf entered the city, the people began throwing sticks at it. The angry wolf returned to the fox ready to kill it. However, the stealthy fox convinced the wolf that he did not mean to set him up. In fact, the fox continued to explain, the sticks being thrown should not be taken personally because the reason why the people tried to hurt the wolf was because of something that one of its ancestors did – that there was once a time when the wolf's father also claimed to try to help out but ended up eating all their food. The wolf asked the fox, “Could it really be that I was beaten up for the sins of my father?” The fox replied, “Yes”, and proceeded to quote a passuk (verse).11 However, the fox continued, “I do know a place where you could get plenty of food.” The fox led the wolf to a well which had two buckets hanging over a beam attached to each other by a rope. The fox jumped into one of the buckets and its weight took him down to the bottom. The wolf called out, “Why did you just go down there?” The fox replied that there was plenty of cheese and meat down in the well and he showed him the reflection of the moon and told him it was a delicious piece of cheese. The fox told the wolf that all he has to do is jump into the bucket that was still hanging at the top of the well. The wolf did so and in doing so its weight carried it down while at the same time lifting the fox's bucket up. The fox then jumped out to safety and while the wolf was screaming from the bottom of the well, “How am I supposed to get out of here?!”, the fox replied, “The righteous one is delivered from trouble and the wicked one comes in his place.”12

The Maharsha explains that in the first story the wolf represents a rasha (wicked person) and really, when he went to the city to “help out” on erev Shabbos he too was doing it with the same intention of his father before him who instead of helping out with the preparations and then joining together for the meal on Shabbos, wanted to steal the food early on Friday itself.13 This, explains the Maharsha, represents the rasha who would rather benefit from this world – symbolized by Friday, a regular weekday – and not willing to hold back from desires and ultimately get rewarded in olam habbah – symbolized by Shabbos.

Regarding the second story, there is a difficulty which first must be cleared. Why was the fox willing to jump into the bucket and be trapped at the bottom of the well? How could it have been so sure that the wolf would follow? The Maharsha answers that really the fox put a stone that was heavier than himself in the other bucket, and then brought with it a stone of equal amount in its own bucket, this way it would be able to be weighed down. This way, in case the wolf would decide not to come, it would be able to just throw its stone out, making his bucket weigh less than the other and he would be lifted back up to safety. However, indeed once again the wolf lured by pleasures of the world was willing to follow. As the wolf jumped into the bucket, the fox threw away his stone and was raised to the top of the well as the wolf was trapped below. This demonstrates how tzadikkim (righteous people) have a yetzer hara (evil inclination) symbolized by the rock – which they throw away in this world in order to be able to be rise and enjoy olam habbah. The rasha, though, stays trapped down in the well lured by the physical attractions of olam hazeh.

Rav Hai Gaon is quoted14 to offer yet another version of the fox parable being referenced by the gemara. He writes that there was once a lion which was about to attack a fox. However. the fox reasoned to the lion, “How full do you think you will be after you eat me? I'm a waste of your energy. Instead, come with me and let me show you a person who you could eat that will satisfy your hunger.” The lion followed but then told the fox that he was too afraid to attack the innocent person because perhaps the person will daven and the lion will be killed. The fox calmed the lion by convincing him that although it is true that the person has the power of tefillah (prayer), in this particular case the tefillos would not affect the lion or the lion's children. Rather, the lion's misdeed would only start to have an effect on the lion's grandchildren. The lion realized that it would indeed take a long time for any suffering to kick in so he decided to go for the kill. As the lion approached the man, it fell into a pit-trap which was camouflage on the ground, covered with leaves and branches. As the fox leaned over to take a look at the captured lion, the lion angrily shouted at it, “I thought you promised that the punishment would only affect my grandson?” The fox answered, “Indeed, what I said was true. You were not captured because of what you just tried to do, but rather for what your grandfather did.” When the lion said back that that was not fair, the fox just retorted that he should have thought about that earlier when he decided that it was okay to do something that would only start to affect generations later. Like the mashal (parable) with the wolf, the lion too demonstrates its selfishness and unwillingness to look into the future.15

The mishna16 quotes Rebbe Masya as saying, “Better be a tail to lions, and not be a head to foxes.” The meforshim (commentaries)17 explain that there is nothing better than to position oneself in the company of great talmidei chochimim where you could learn a tremendous amount from just by being around and watching their actions and listening to the advice they give.18 One could choose to instead be a leader of foxes, but such a person would be short-selling himself because he cannot advance in his learning. Rather such a person will merely stay the same or drop down to the level of the pack he is leading. As the meforshim explain, at the end of the day, the tail of a lion is a lion, and the head of a fox is a fox. If one is presented with the choice of accepting a leadership position versus staying a student among talmidei chochomim (Torah scholars), it seems that remaining as the recipient of advise is greater than becoming the giver of advice.

At the same time, however, this must be balanced with yet another teaching found in Pirkei Avos. The mishna19 quotes one of Hillel's many mantra's that in a place where there are no leaders, strive to be a leader. As Rashi20 points out, if there are those around us who we could learn from we should do so, but if there are no community leaders or people in niche positions, then certainly one is tasked with filling the role.

What better example of a fox is there than Yosef Ha'Tzaddik. He remained pure despite his years spent as a slave, in jail, and as a ruler of Mitzrayim. He had the opportunity to do aveiros (sins), going down into wells with heavy stones. However, Yosef passed his tests and threw the proverbial stone away and rose back up to safety and greatness, leaving everyone else behind. These qualities of perseverance and recognition of Hashem being behind a master plan is precisely what B'nei Yisroel required to be down in Mitzrayim first in order to set the stage and example of how to raise a frum and kosher home in galus (exile) to the extent of being able to raise children equivalent to shevatim (tribes) in the house of Yaakov avinu!21 Yosef demonstrated in full color that despite what is going on outside, the purity of the home and care for the future that parents could have for their children and grandchildren are the only necessary components needed to pass the torch to the next generation. This is what Yaakov realized when discussing with Yosef the plans of bringing his body out of Mitzrayim and into Eretz Yisroel – that because of Yosef setting the foundation in galus, Yaakov is sure of the future geulah (redemption) to Eretz Yisroel.

During our time in galus, it has become more and more difficult for Jews to keep their identity. Even those Jews who had been willing to throw most of religion away except one or two ties to Judasim such as showing up to shul on Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, may have thought they were doing themselves a favor, but where are their grandchildren now?

The Gemara22 relates that Rabban Gamliel, Rabbi Elazar ben Azarya, Rabbi Yehoshua, and Rabbi Akiva were all once walking through Yerushalayim. When they arrived to where the Beis Hamikdash once stood they witnessed a fox emerging from where the Kodesh Hakadashim (Holy of Holies) used to be. Immediately, three of the tannaim started crying. However, Rabbi Akiva started laughing. They asked Rabbi Akiva, “Why are you laughing?” Rabbi Akiva countered with a question of his own, “Why are you crying?” They answered, “What do you mean why are we crying? Here is a place where if a non-Kohen would walk, he would be put to death, and yet now foxes walk here, and we should not cry?” Rabbi Akiva explained that the reasons he was laughing was because now that he saw that the one nevuah (prophecy) was fulfilled, he was comforted because that means that the other nevuah will come true as well. The nevuah they witnessed was that Yerushalayim will become heaps and the place where the Beis Hamikdash stood will be like a forest.23 Rabbi Akiva though realized that just as the first nevuah came true, so too will the ones which describe the future happiness we will experience during the era of Mashiach and the third Beis Hamikdash..24 Upon hearing this, the Rabbis told Rabbi Akiva that with these words he had succeeded in comforting them.

It is interesting to point out though that the animal that was used to symbolize the beginning of galus with its promising end of a geulah, is the fox in the Kodesh Hakadashim. Perhaps, with our explanation we could understand that the fox was chosen to represent the minor leaders we are all tasked to be through galus in ensuring that the mesorah (tradition) continues to the next generation.

Perek Shirah25 records that the fox says, “Woe to him that builds his house without righteousness and his attic without justice; he employs his fellow with no wages, and will not pay him his due.”26 Perhaps beyond the conventional explanations offered for this passuk, we could understand another tier of what the fox is saying. The fox stresses the importance of establishing a house with righteousness, and not chasing after desires like the wolf, by using others to inappropriately get benefits. Just as the wolf and the wicked only care about what they want, and are not willing to pay or wait, so too will the wicked not be paid in olam habbah, like the wolf trapped at the bottom of the well.

Asarah b'Teves is no doubt an extremely sad day – the day that Nevuchadnetzar began the siege of Yerushalayim. It was the beginning of what ultimately led to the destruction of the first Beis Hamikdash, and we therefore fast even when it comes out on erev Shabbos. However, while it is definitely a time of reflection and mourning, perhaps it is also a time to restart for the future with the lessons of the fox in the Beis Hamikdash that there is another nevuah which promises an incredible and awesome geulah (redemption) in the near future. However, we must ensure that we are properly passing down the mesorah down in a way that is not only for ourselves, but for the generations to come. The job of the fox, as Yosef demonstrated, is to realize that he is in charge of the future. The role model he chooses to be for his family, friends, and community is vital in galus to ensure the continuation of the Jewish people.

May Hashem help us take these ideas to heart and just as we experience Asarah b'Teves leading straight into Shabbos this year, may we very soon experience the galus leading into a time of geulah.




1Beraishis 47:29-30
2 It is referred to the cave of couples because of the several couples which are buried there, This is where Adam and Chava were buried as well as Avraham and Sarah, Yitzchak and Rivka, and Yaakov and Leah.
3See Rashi Beraishis 47:29
4Beraishis 47:31
5Rashi ibid.
6Megillah 16b
7Orchos Tzadikkim: Sha'ar Ha'Gaivah
8Orchos Tzadikkim: Sha'ar Ha'Chanifus
9Sanhedrin 39a
10Ibid.
11Yechezkel 18:2 “The fathers have eaten sour grapes and the children's teeth are set on edge.”
12Mishlei 11:8. See Maharasha who asks that according to Rashi's explanation there seems to be only two parables and not three.
13See Gemara Berachos 7a which discusses that a wicked person is “punished for the sins of his father” when he follows in the same path.
14See Teshuvos Ha'Gaonim by Rabbi Yaakov Musafyah (section 30)
15This is contrary to the fox, who is a wise creature and has the future in mind. Similarly we find in Koheles (2:14) – “The wise man has eyes in his head, but the fool goes in the darkness”
16Avos 4:20
17See Rashi, Rambam, Rabbeinu Yonah, and others.
18See also Avos 1:4
19Avos 2:6
20Ibid.
21See Beraishis 48:5 and Rashi there.
22Makkos 24b
23Michah 3:12 See Tosfos Makkos 24b as to why it is referred to the Nevuah of Oriyah if it is in Michah
24Zecharyah 8:1-5
25Perek Shirah Chapter 5

26Yirmiyahu 22:13.   

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