Friday, July 11, 2014

Parshas Pinchas - Core Credentials

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Pinchas

Core Credentials
וַיְדַבֵּר משֶׁה אֶל ה' לֵאמֹר: יִפְקֹד ה' אֱלֹקי הָרוּחֹת לְכָל בָּשָׂר אִישׁ עַל הָעֵדָה: אֲשֶׁר יֵצֵא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יָבֹא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יוֹצִיאֵם וַאֲשֶׁר יְבִיאֵם וְלֹא תִהְיֶה עֲדַת ה' כַּצֹּאן אֲשֶׁר אֵין לָהֶם רֹעֶה: וַיֹּאמֶר ה' אֶל משֶׁה קַח לְךָ אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בִּן נוּן אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר רוּחַ בּוֹ וְסָמַכְתָּ אֶת יָדְךָ עָלָיו: וְהַעֲמַדְתָּ אֹתוֹ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה וְצִוִּיתָה אֹתוֹ לְעֵינֵיהֶם: וְנָתַתָּה מֵהוֹדְךָ עָלָיו לְמַעַן יִשְׁמְעוּ כָּל עֲדַת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל: וְלִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן יַעֲמֹד וְשָׁאַל לוֹ בְּמִשְׁפַּט הָאוּרִים לִפְנֵי ה' עַל פִּיו יֵצְאוּ וְעַל פִּיו יָבֹאוּ הוּא וְכָל בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אִתּוֹ וְכָל הָעֵדָה: וַיַּעַשׂ משֶׁה כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּה ה' אֹתוֹ וַיִּקַּח אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ וַיַּעֲמִדֵהוּ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה: וַיִּסְמֹךְ אֶת יָדָיו עָלָיו וַיְצַוֵּהוּ כַּאֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר ה' בְּיַד משֶׁה

“Moshe spoke to Hashem, saying, 'May Hashem, G-d of the spirits of all flesh, appoint a man over the assembly, who shall go out before them and come in before them, who shall take them out and who shall bring them in; and let the assembly of Hashem not be like sheep that have no shepherd.' Hashem said to Moshe, 'Take to yourself Yehoshua son of Nun, a man in whom there is spirit, and lean your hand upon him. You shall stand him before Elazar the kohen and before the entire assembly, and command him before their eyes. You shall place of your splendor upon him, so that the entire assembly of the Children of Israel will pay heed. Before Elazar the kohen shall he stand, and he shall inquire of him of the judgment of the Urim before Hashem; by his word shall they go out and by his word shall they come in, he and all the Children of Israel with him, and the entire assemble.' Moshe did as Hashem had commanded him. He took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar the kohen and ind before the entire assembly. He leaned his hands upon him and commanded him, as Hashem had spoken through Moshe.”
-Pinchas 27:16-23

Hashem reminded Moshe that because of his sin with hitting the rock, he would not be allowed to enter Eretz Yisroel. Therefore, a new leader had to be appointed. The new leader would have to be one capable of following in Moshe's footsteps and leading a stubborn B'nei Yisroel out of the midbar (desert) and into their next stage of conquering Eretz Yisroel. If we take the moment to read through the passukim carefully, listening to the conversation between Hashem and Moshe, we will find what the Torah values most when it comes to looking for someone capable of leading the nation of Hashem.

The Torah1 relates when Moshe davened (prayed) to Hashem to ask that He appoint a suitable successor, Moshe referred to Hashem as “elokei ha'ruchos (G-d of the spirits). Rashi2 explains that by using this expression, he was in fact davening: “Master of the World! The personality of each individual is revealed before You; they do not resemble each other. Appoint a leader who can put up with each individual according to his personality.”

It is fascinating that if one stands two people alongside each other and analyzes their features part by part, it is often very difficult to figure out which part is so drastically different that the people should have such unique features. Yet, it is a fact that people look different from one another. Chazal tell us based on the Gemara3 that just as our faces are not the same, neither are our minds. Each person sees things in a different light from a different perspective. Some thoughts may be similar while others will contrast as much as black and white. A proper leader must be able to appreciate each person's unique personality and be able to deal with each individual appropriately. His task is the ultimate challenge of receiving people b'seiver panim yafos4 Not merely always smiling or always serious, but rather “b'seiver”. A leader must put thought into his countenance depending on each individual, case by case. This is one quality which Moshe stresses as being of utmost importance. Someone placed in an authoritative position leading a group and wanting to help them grow, must be able to be in-tuned to the different dynamics that by definition exists and varies based on each individual, and be able to wisely deal with each one accordingly.

Moshe continues his tefillah (prayer) saying that the leader should be one who shall go out before them and come in before them. Rashi5 explains that Moshe was saying the following: “Hashem, may You choose a leader who does not act in the manner of the kings of the other nations who sit in their palaces and send their armies off to war, but rather act as I [Moshe] did, for I did battle against Sichon and Og.”


From this part of Moshe's tefillah we gather a second equally important attribute a leader must have, namely he must practice what he preaches. It is very easy to lecture and give commands and then sit back and watch as they get done, or disciple when they do not get accomplished. However, such behavior is less than insufficient, it is counter-productive. It gives quite a mixed message when the one preaching does not act as such himself, and it creates, whether consciously or subconsciously, a definite confusion and possibly even a strong dislike or hatred to the one giving the orders. A true leader does not ask of things he does not do himself. If he is asking his subjects to go to war, he will lead them into the war himself. If he is suggesting ways of living, he will follow them as well. This is true even in a general sense of leading, and so much more when the leader has the responsibility of relating the commands of Hashem.


Continuing the narrative in the Torah, the next couple of passukim relate what Hashem responded to Moshe. Rashi6 states that Hashem told Moshe to take Yehoshua with words, meaning, that Moshe should say to him how fortunate and privileged he is to lead the children of Hashem. Yet, it is only one passuk7 later when Hashem continues to tell Moshe to warn his successor that the job of leading B'nei Yisroel is not an easy one. As Rashi8 describes: B'nei Yisroel are troublesome and uncooperative.


Along these lines, there is an old joke that a United States President phoned the Israeli Prime Minister and started complaining about how difficult it was being president over a country of people and having to hear the constant complaints and being blamed for everything. The Israeli Prime Minister replied, “Big deal. You only need to be president over a country full of people. I need to be president over a country full of presidents.”


B'nei Yisroel is a hard nation to lead, and anyone who leads B'nei Yisroel should be reminded of this and that if they are to accept the position, an understanding of this is imperative just as Hashem told Moshe to forewarn Yehoshua appropriately. However, the correct mindset that goes along with it is not a huge sigh, but rather as Rashi puts so beautifully, “You are fortunate, for you are privileged to lead the children of G-d!” A pure-hearted leader of K'lal Yisroel does not get tired out from helping the people and putting up with all the nonsense because in the end of the day there is a drive which surpasses it all, and that is the amazing privilege of being in a position of leading the children of Hashem. This is the mindset necessary to be a good leader of B'nei Yisroel.
The next passuk9 continues Hashem's instructions to Moshe regarding appointing a new leader. Hashem tells Moshe to place his splendor upon his successor. Rashi10 elaborates that Moshe's face was like the sun and Yehoshua's face was like the moon. Besides for the pashut p'shat (simple explanation) fact that Hashem was stating that there will never be a navi (prophet) or leader as great as Moshe rabbeinu, there is perhaps another underlying point being hinted to here. The moon does not give off its own light, but rather just reflects what it is able to get from the sun. Perhaps with this moshol (parable) we could extract yet another vital property of a Jewish leader. It may be true that as generations go on, the light that the moon reflects gets less and less, however the most important aspect is that it is reflecting its light from the sun. No matter the “qualifications” of a leader, the ultimate qualification is the fact he has a rebbe and a mesorah (tradition) going up to Moshe rabbeinu. Someone who self-declares himself as being smart enough to lead is foolish and is missing the most critical qualifier of having a rebbe with a mesorah. One must not be a leader with his own light but rather that which reflects off the sun. This is yet another vital factor in choosing a leader for K'lal Yisroel, which we learn from Hashem's conversation with Moshe.


The Torah11 concludes this segment by describing that Moshe did exactly as Hashem commanded him and took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar Ha'Kohen. Moshe then leaned his hands on Yehoshua – giving him the first semicha in history – and commanded him everything Hashem told him. Rashi12 points out that really, Hashem commanded Moshe to lean his hand on Yehoshua, yet the Torah accounts that Moshe leaned his hands on Yehoshua, more than Hashem commanded him, as if to demonstrate that he was generously overfilling Yehoshua to the brim with his wisdom.


The Kli Yakar13 asks that according to Rashi's explanation that Moshe in fact did more than he was commanded, how could Moshe have done so? Isn't that an issue of bal tosef – the negative commandment to add to mitzvos? If Hashem gives a commandment with a specific number then we are not allowed to add to that. For example, on Succos we are commanded to bring four species. Not three and not five. So if Hashem commanded Moshe to lean one hand, how could he have leaned both his hands?


The Kli Yakar offers the following answer which givers further insight into the responsibility of a Jewish leader. The Kli Yakar writes that Moshe was to lean his hand in the same way as we find by karbanos (offerings). In the parsha of karbanos, the Torah also uses the singular form to describe the kohen leaning his hand on the animal, yet in practice it describes Aharon leaning both his hands on the karbon. Moshe replicated the form of the commandment and practice as mentioned by the karbonos at the time of appointing Yehoshua in order to demonstrate that the role of the leader is to bear the burden of the various sins and mistakes of the nation. Just as the karbon must carry the burden of the aveiros (sins), so too a leader of K'lal Yisroel must be willing to be responsible for everyone under his care.


Perhaps there is even an additional message which could be gleaned from this Rashi and Kli Yakar. A leader must be there purely for the people and not for any selfish purpose whatsoever. If one stops for a moment and thinks about political positions, when a mayor, governor, or president must give up his position after a complete term or by being voted out, one will never find him truly wishing that his successor do as good a job as he. Each president wants to be the one to be remembered and wants to take up the biggest section in the history books. Often to try to achieve this politicians will bad-mouth their successors or sarcastically challenge them to do as good a job. However, those are properties of a bad person and very far from the characteristics of a good leader. A good leader wishes only for the ultimate success of the people. This means that a good leader would do all he could to try to find a successor that is just as good or better than himself so that he could pass on his charge of taking care of the people he loves to a suitable person. Perhaps this is yet another idea being pointed out by the Torah and Rashi, that Moshe was someone who truly loved and cared for the B'nei Yisroel, therefore, as depressing as it was to have to give up his position and prepare to face death, Moshe put both hands on Yehoshua to express that he wanted to give him everything he had with a beracha (blessing) that Yehoshua have the capacity of strength and wisdom to lead K'lal Yisroel like Moshe himself.
The mishna14 states that there are four types of people who give tzedaka. The first is someone who is willing to give tzedaka (charity) but wishes that no one else does. The mishna refers to such a person as begrudging of others. Here is a person who looks like he is doing a nice thing by giving tzedaka but it is clearly for only selfish reasons. The proof is in the fact that he does not want others to give. He cares more about being in the spotlight, than the poor people having food to eat. He couldn't care less about the poor people; if he did he would encourage others to give as well. The same thing is true when it comes to a leader. A good leader wants only what is best for his people. If there is someone else helping him lead and doing a good job, he should not be jealous, because as long as the people are benefiting, he should be happy. Someone who tries to undermine the good of others is clearly not a leader but rather a haughty person who wants to steal the spotlight.


When we speak of leaders, the term is not limited to a king or president of countries or nations. Rather, a leader in K'lal Yisroel includes anyone of influence whether a friend, mentor, camp counselor, rebbe, rav, or community leader. The group could be big, it could be small; it could be a less involved role or a more aggressive one. It could be at work, or in school; with frum people, or ones needing kiruv. No matter the details, the guidelines from this week's parsha apply all the same. A key leader is someone who has a rebbe with a mesorah and understands and cares deeply for every individual in his sphere of influence; and despite the trouble and white hairs that are bound to come, he remains driven with the privilege he has to be involved with the growth and helping of Hashem's children. He is also more than happy to bear the responsibilities that come with his role without any jealousy of those who are capable of inputting productively.


May Hashem help us realize our own spheres of influence and guide the leaders of K'lal Yisroel along the mindset of Moshe as he placed his hands on Yehoshua.

1Bamidbar 27:16
2Rashi ibid.
3Berachos 58a
4See Mishna Avos 1:15
5Rashi Bamidbar 27:17
6Rashi Bamidbar 27:18
7Bamidbar 27:19
8Rashi ibid.
9Bamidbar 27:20
10Rashi Bamidbar 27:20
11Bamidbar 27:22-23
12Rashi Bamidbar 27:23
13Bamidbar 27:18

14Avos 5:16

Friday, July 4, 2014

Parshas Balak - A Weapon of Mass Construction

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Balak



A Weapon of Mass Construction

וַיִּשְׁלַח מַלְאָכִים אֶל בִּלְעָם בֶּן בְּעוֹר פְּתוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר עַל הַנָּהָר אֶרֶץ בְּנֵי עַמּוֹ לִקְרֹא לוֹ לֵאמֹר הִנֵּה עַם יָצָא מִמִּצְרַיִם הִנֵּה כִסָּה אֶת עֵין הָאָרֶץ וְהוּא ישֵׁב מִמֻּלִי: וְעַתָּה לְכָה נָּא אָרָה לִּי אֶת הָעָם הַזֶּה כִּי
עָצוּם הוּא מִמֶּנִּי אוּלַי אוּכַל נַכֶּה בּוֹ וַאֲגָרְשֶׁנּוּ מִן הָאָרֶץ כִּי יָדַעְתִּי אֵת אֲשֶׁר תְּבָרֵךְ מְבֹרָךְ וַאֲשֶׁר תָּאֹר יוּאָר

“He [Balak] sent messengers to Billam son of Beor to Pesor, which by the river of the land of the members of his people, to summon him, saying, 'Behold! A people has come out of Egypt and it rests opposite me. So now – please come and invoke a curse upon this people for me, for it is more powerful than me; perhaps I will succeed, we will strike at it and I will drive it away from the land. For I know that whomever you bless is blessed and whoever you invoke a curse upon is accursed.'”
-Balak 22:5-6

Rashi1 describes that Balak, king of Midyan, had an arrangement with Sichon and Og, kings of the Amorite. The Midyan and Moav territories used to pay a tax to the Amorite for them to protect their borders. When Balak saw that Sichon and Og were unable to stand up against B'nei Yisroel, he immediately realized that he would definitely not stand a chance. Balak therefore called upon Billam, the sorcerer, to use his powers to curse B'nei Yisroel out of existence. The passuk (verse)2 describes that Hashem Himself told Billam that his mission would be a complete failure because Hashem would not allow Billam to curse His blessed nation. Yet, Billam was obstinate and continued on his way riding his donkey. The Torah3 tells us that Hashem was furious that Billam decided to keep going and He sent a malach (angel) to stand on the path with a drawn sword in its hand. Rashi4 comments that the malach took a sword because it reasoned the following: “This evil one [Billam] put aside the tools of his craft, for the weapon of goyim is the sword, and instead he comes against them with his mouth, which is the craft of the B'nei Yisroel. I too shall grab that which is his, and I shall come against him with his own craft.” This is why the malach chose to threaten Billam with a sword, and in fact, Billam's ultimate death was by sword.5

The difference of craft between Jews and goyim is one which was present and noted all the way back during the time of Yaakov and Eisav. When Yaakov pretended to be Eisav in order to accept the berachos (blessings) from Yitzchak, Yitzchak exclaimed, “Ha'kol kol Yaakov, v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav”6 (The voice is the voice of Yaakov, but the hands are those of Eisav). Rashi7 comments that the very way Yaakov spoke was different. He spoke pleasantly and nicely, and this was something unique t to Yaakov, which Eisav was lacking. After all, as the Kli Yakar8 elaborates, the passuk cannot merely mean that the voice itself gave it away because if Yaakov really sounded different than Eisav then it would have clear it was Yaakov. Rather, the Torah is informing us that although they sounded similar, their tone and manners while speaking were quite different from each other.

The Kli Yakar there continues and says that the passuk deliberately puts “ha'kol kol Yaakov” before “v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav” to allude to the fact that as long as Yaakov holds onto his power of kol, Eisav's weapon of yadayim is utterly powerless.

Our weapon is our mouth which connects the worlds of gashmiyus and ruchniyus. It is literally our peh – the opening and portal between the synchronized dimensions of spirituality and physicality. Eating is a physical activity, but reciting a beracha (blessing) before and after gives it more of a purpose. The power that people, and particularly Jews have with speech is beyond our comprehension. Declaring things as hekdesh, reciting berachos, testifying, making shevuos (oaths), and stating when the new month begins are just some of the many things we have the power to do with speech. These examples are more than rules and customs, they are examples of real things that even have an effect on physical nature based on our power of speech. Of course, this list is far from complete without davening and learning Torah which are the ultimate ways of connecting directly to Hashem through our thoughts and speech.

As is the case by all things which are important to do, there is a strong yetzer harah to not maintain a kol Yaakov. In the world in general, lashon harrah, improper speech, and inappropriate language, are quite acceptable. When we are secluded from it, it is easier to stay away but unfortunately this often becomes exponentially difficult and more tempting during the summer when there is a general laxness in the atmosphere that we do not have to keep to our year-round standards, and when time is spent with other crowds of people who sometimes cause a negative peer pressure.

The most important thing is to not be moreh heter (rationalize) to ourselves and say what could be so bad already about a curse here or an inappropriate comment there; for it is a pretty serious matter indeed. The Gemara9 discusses when one is obligated to give up his life instead of transgressing certain mitzvos. The famous part of the Gemara is the part where it mentions that the three cardinal sins: idol worship, illicit relations, and murder are what fall under this category. However, the less-quoted part of the Gemara is a few lines later where the Gemara qualifies that the whole discussion of the Gemara is only by times where it is a personal force or where the aveirah (sin) would take place in private. However, says the Gemara, if the aveirah is one which society as a whole or government is enforcing, or if even not but the aveirah is in public, then even for a “mitzvah kallah (literally: a light mitzva), one must allow himself to be killed rather than transgress. The Gemara then asks, “What is a 'minor mitzvah'?” and answers that it refers even to a case where a Jew is ordered to change his shoelace. The rishonim10 explain that the Gemara refers to cities where the goyim wore a less modest color shoelace or form of tying their shoelace. In such a city if one was publicly forced to wear such a shoelace or tie it in such a fashion, or even forced to do so in private – but by the government, he would be obligated to give up his life and not transgress on following after the ways of the goyim.

It is hard to imagine the extent of immodesty possible to breach with a shoelace, but nonetheless, the Gemara clearly says that even such a light mitzva of being forced to wear shoelaces in the way of the goyim is something to give up one's life for if forced in public or by the government.

After hearing the horrible news this past Monday that the three kidnapped boys in Israel were indeed murdered, many wondered why Hashem put us all through 18 days of pain along with their families in the complete dark? If they were killed right away in cold blood for not even a ransom, why didn't Hashem arrange for the Israeli army to be able to discover the bodies right away and save us the added misery of not knowing what happened to them? The answer that many concluded on their own is that for Jews across the spectrum, those 18 days was a time of realization that Hashem is really the only One we depend on to fight our fights, and that we have the privilege of a direct access pass to Hashem through the power of our mouth utilizing our tools of davening, learning and being mekabel (accepting) Shabbos early as a zechus (merit) for the boys. Now, the biggest zechus for their neshamos would be if we capitalized on the lesson Hashem taught us during those 18 days and used the summer to fight our personal yetzer harah and instead work extra hard on keeping our thoughts and mouth clean of dirty thoughts and language in order for them to be cleansed and prepared as proper vehicles to learn and daven to Hashem.

There is no doubt that there is a strong current in the direction of following the norms of the world and lowering our standards. However, we must understand the severity of doing so. The Gemara may seem extreme to us when it says to give up one's life for a shoelace, because we have fallen so much past that, but we should at least take the equivalent of what we do which is too similar to the “ya'dayim y'dei Eisav” which we should accept upon ourselves to stay far away from as if we would have to give up our lives not to transgress. In this way we could each properly reset our minds and mouths in order that we be able to maximize its potential as a weapon of mass construction.



1Bamidbar 22:2
2Bamidbar 22:12 and see also 22:18 where Billam conveys this to Balak's men
3Bamidbar 22:22
4Bamidbar 22:23
5Bamidbar 31:8
6Beraishis 27:22
7Rashi ibid.
8Ibid.
9Sanhedrin 74a-74b

10For example see Rashi ibid.
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Friday, June 27, 2014

Parshas Chukas - One Strike and You're Out!

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Chukas



One Strike and You're Out!

וַיִּקַּח משֶׁה אֶת הַמַּטֶּה מִלִּפְנֵי ה' כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּהוּ: וַיַּקְהִלוּ משֶׁה וְאַהֲרֹן אֶת הַקָּהָל אֶל פְּנֵי הַסָּלַע וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶם שִׁמְעוּ נָא הַמֹּרִים הֲמִן הַסֶּלַע הַזֶּה נוֹצִיא לָכֶם מָיִם: וַיָּרֶם משֶׁה אֶת יָדוֹ וַיַּךְ אֶת הַסֶּלַע בְּמַטֵּהוּ פַּעֲמָיִם וַיֵּצְאוּ מַיִם רַבִּים וַתֵּשְׁתְּ הָעֵדָה וּבְעִירָם: וַיֹּאמֶר ה' אֶל משֶׁה וְאֶל אַהֲרֹן יַעַן לֹא הֶאֱמַנְתֶּם בִּי לְהַקְדִּישֵׁנִי לְעֵינֵי בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לָכֵן לֹא תָבִיאוּ אֶת הַקָּהָל הַזֶּה אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר נָתַתִּי לָהֶם

“Moshe took the staff from before Hashem, as He had commanded him. Moshe and Aharon gathered the congregation before the rock and he said to them, “Listen now, rebels, shall we bring forth water for you from this rock? Then Moshe raised his arm and struck the rock with his staff twice; abundant water came forth and the assembly and their animals drank. Hashem said to Moshe and Aharon, 'Because you did not believe in Me to sanctify Me in the eyes of the Children of Israel, therefore, you will not bring this congregation to the Land that I have given them.'”
-Chukas 20:9-12

Rashi1 informs us that the ever-flowing well of water which the Jews had in the desert for forty years was there only through the merit of Miriam. Therefore, when Miriam died, the waters ceased . At that point, the Jews immediately swarmed Moshe and Aharon complaining that they were going to die of thirst in the desert and it would have been better had they remained in Mitzrayim. Moshe and Aharon davened (prayed) to Hashem on their behalf and Hashem told Moshe to take his stick and gather everyone in front of a rock and then speak to it to bring water forth.2 However, as the passuk (verse) describes, Moshe struck the rock instead of speaking to it and for this slight deviation in Hashem's commandment, he was punished by not being able to be a part of the culmination of all his efforts as the leader, bringing the B'nei Yisroel into Eretz Yisroel.

It is so hard for us to understand how it could be that despite everything Moshe rabbeinu did leading B'nei Yisroel through the midbar (desert), that Hashem not allow him to enter Eretz Yisroel because of a seemingly small misunderstanding. The Ohr Hachaim3 compiles a list of ten explanations to try to understand what Moshe did wrong. He first brings the opinion of Rashi4 that Moshe's mistake was that he hit the rock as opposed to speaking to it. He then brings the opinion of the Ibn Ezra who maintains ins that the sin was not in the hitting of the rock as opposed to speaking to it, but rather that Moshe's mistake was not having the proper kavanah (focused thoughts) when he hit the rock which required him to have to hit it a second time. Another possibility is that leaving aside his kavanah, Moshe should have only hit it once and definitely not twice. Another possible explanation is that perhaps the sin of Moshe was that he did not sing a shirah (song of praise) on the event of water flowing from the rock. And the list goes on. Each explanation in the Ohr HaChaim's compilation is essentially a slightly different form of Moshe rabbeinu barely sinning. So what did he do that was really so bad?

The Kli Yakar5 points out that no matter which approach one takes, the fundamental mistake Moshe rabbeinu was punished for was not as much about what he did, but rather what he could have done. Had Moshe rabbeinu spoken to the rock and the rock would have just listened and brought forth water – a tremendous kiddush Hashem would have been made. At that moment a kal v'chomeir would have been lodged into the minds of everyone present that if this rock, which is just a rock, listens and obeys the commands of Hashem so diligently, so much more so must we who have brains and the ability to think, be wary to carry out the commandments of Hashem meticulously. Moshe's hitting the rock instead of speaking to the rock allowed only for a watered-down6 version of this logic to be learned from and therefore he was severely punished.

If we stop to think about this, it is absolutely mind-boggling. It is true that Moshe hit the rock instead of speaking to it, and perhaps it is even true that that watered-down the potential lesson that could have been learned. However, there is no doubt that a tremendous miracle occurred in the presence of the whole nation. They saw an incredible feat occur before their very eyes. Certainly it boosted their belief in Hashem and motivated them to listen better to Hashem and Moshe. So why indeed was Moshe punished so severely?

We see from this episode the severity of not achieving our fullest when it comes to making a kiddush Hashem. It is true that even with Moshe hitting the rock, tremendous lessons could be learned, but Moshe could have done more to publicize kavod shamayim, and he neglected to do so.


It is no secret that the summer is a very challenging time in terms of keeping our standards. For some, it is a free-for-all time when all the restrictions of the year fall away and we have the opportunity to do things we would never be caught dead doing in our own communities or yeshivos. For others, it may not be a free-for-all, but yet may still be a time where although standards are kept, they are not necessarily kept as high. We must remember, though, that the term kiddush Hashem means more than just not acting like an animal in public. Moshe's punishment for not creating as much a kiddush Hashem as he could have, occurred at a time when a tremendous kiddush shamayim was made. Kiddush Hashem is relevant in our behaving properly and being careful with the way we speak, dress, and act in front of the world, in front of the community where we spend the summer, in front of the new friends we make who do not even necessarily know where we are personally holding to be able to judge us, and even in private. As banim l'makom, we must be careful with the ways we conduct ourselves all year-round.


May Hashem help us and all of k'lal yisroel not only stay away from chas v'shalom causing a chilul Hashem, but to even help us maintain the proper standards of kiddush shamayim. With such a zechus, may we experience of summer of ultimate kiddush Hashem with the arrival of mashiach and the third Beis Hamikdash, instead of mourning in galus for the destruction of the first and second Batei Mikdashos.
1Rashi Bamidbar 20:2
2Bamidbar 20:8
3Bamidbar 20:8
4Rashi Bamidbar (20:11)
5Bamidbar 20:8

6Excuse the pun

Friday, June 20, 2014

Parshas Korach - Seeing is Believing, but Believing is Seeing

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Korach



Seeing is Believing, but Believing is Seeing

וַיֹּאמֶר משֶׁה בְּזֹאת תֵּדְעוּן כִּי ה' שְׁלָחַנִי לַעֲשׂוֹת אֵת כָּל הַמַּעֲשִׂים הָאֵלֶּה כִּי לֹא מִלִּבִּי: אִם כְּמוֹת כָּל הָאָדָם יְמֻתוּן אֵלֶּה וּפְקֻדַּת כָּל הָאָדָם יִפָּקֵד עֲלֵיהֶם לֹא ה' שְׁלָחָנִי: וְאִם בְּרִיאָה יִבְרָא ה' וּפָצְתָה הָאֲדָמָה אֶת פִּיהָ וּבָלְעָה אֹתָם וְאֶת כָּל אֲשֶׁר לָהֶם וְיָרְדוּ חַיִּים שְׁאֹלָה וִידַעְתֶּם כִּי נִאֲצוּ הָאֲנָשִׁים הָאֵלֶּה אֶת ה': וַיְהִי כְּכַלֹּתוֹ לְדַבֵּר אֵת כָּל הַדְּבָרִים הָאֵלֶּה וַתִּבָּקַע הָאֲדָמָה אֲשֶׁר תַּחְתֵּיהֶם

“Moshe said, 'Through this shall you know that Hashem has sent me to perform all these acts, for it was not from my heart. If these die like the death of all men, and the destiny of all men is visited upon them, [then] it is not Hashem Who has sent me. But if Hashem will create a new creation and the earth opens its mouth and swallows them and all that is theirs, and they will descend alive to the pit, then you shall know that these men have provoked Hashem!' When he finished speaking all these words, the ground that was under them split open.”
-Korach 16:28-31

Continuing in the series of unfortunate events throughout the B'nei Yisroel's travels in the midbar (desert) is the story of Korah v'adaso (Korach and his assembly) who gathered together to challenge the authority of Moshe and Aharon. However, the truth is that Korach's arrogance was one which challenged the authority of Hashem. After all, everything Moshe did and said was a fulfillment of what Hashem commanded him. Indeed, Moshe's response to Korach and his assembly was that Korach's fight was with Hashem and therefore it will become clear from Hashem what happens to those who dare challenge His authority. Moshe declared that an unprecedented cause of death be what kills Korach and his wicked assembly. It was at that precise moment that the mouth of the earth opened and swallowed Korach and the men who were with him.

Now, although it is true that the Moshe davened that it be a new creation which devours Korach, we know from the gemara1 which cites the passuk (verse) from Koheles2 that there is nothing new under the sun. As a matter of fact, the mishna3 itself states that there were ten things created on the eve of Shabbos at twilight – during the last moments of the six days of creation – and the first one mentioned on the list is “the mouth of the earth”. The commentaries4 on the mishna all agree that this refers to the ground which was destined to swallow Korach and his assembly. So, the creation was not new in the sense that it was created at the time that Korach rebelled, but rather new in the sense that despite being conceptualized during sheishes y'mei Beraishis with everything else in the world, it was reserved to be used at this point in time. New, no; unprecedented, yes. Based on this mishna It would seem as if the hole that swallowed Korach was created with a built in timer-clock waiting precisely for the predetermined time moment for it to wipe out Korach v'adaso. If so, the classic question which could be asked here is that if the foundation and purpose of the creation of the world is all for man to have free choice and to choose correctly, how could Hashem know what Korach would do before he did it? If Hashem knew in advance the path that Korach was going to choose then to an extent, Korach's decision was predetermined. It would have been impossible for Korach to choose good, because Hashem already knew he would choose evil and already conceptualized the punishment. How does the concept of Hashem knowing all fit with the necessity of free choice in this world?5

We have all traveled through time before. In fact, contrary to popular belief, it is quite easy and we do so all the time. Let us begin by explaining this simply: If one merely travels west faster than the sun, one is sort of going back in time. Nowadays, with faster means of transportation such as trains and planes, it is quite often that one finds himself to have arrived at a destination before he even left. One could leave at 11am from an hour away and arrive just in time as you cross over a time zone. This is because the world is divided into 24 sections, each one by definition representing an hour of the day at every possible angle the sun could hit it from its stationary point. As the world revolves, time advances. However, truth be told, this is a fairly recent innovation established in the late 1800's and early 1900's in order to make a standardized time for everyone to use.6 The reason this became necessary was because reality is that every single spot on earth has its own unique timezone. The sun does not simultaneously hit earth in 24 zones, but rather from every single slightly different angle possible. For example, despite being in the same timezone, there is about an eight minute difference between New York and Boston. The millions of different times, however, became impractical with the surge of travel when trains became a popular means of transportation. However, the reality of their being slight differences in time is something very relevant to us and is reflected of course in our zemanim (such as for determining sunrise, sunset, candle-lighting for Shabbos, etc.). We cannot depend on a universal time frame within a zone to set our times for davening and Shabbos, because that is not accurate. We must depend on real time based on the latitude and longitude lines of each individual city.

However, of course even as a person changes time zones, he is not really traveling through time, just as an astronaut in space cannot see past, present, and future simultaneously. Time is linear and continues forward, despite the fact that some parts in the world got a “head start” depending on where they were positioned when time was set in motion during sheishes y'mei bereishis. It is impossible for us to understand what it would mean to be external to time because we were programmed to be bound by space and time.

When it comes to science the general rule is seeing is believing. Hypotheses and theories remain as such until they are proven absolutely. Hashem created this world with teva (nature). The natural world is extremely complex and intricate and indeed allows Hashem to work the world in many ways and yet remain hidden. One could choose to see Hashem from teva or one could choose to attribute everything to teva and ignore Hashem completely.

A couple of years ago, a team at Ultra Tech International, inc. made UltraEverDry, a super-hydrophobic and uleophobic coating which repels almost all water-based and even oil-based liquids. The way that it works is that it changes the form of molecules at the nano-level. Nanotechnology refers to the manipulation of matter on an atomic and molecular scale. Just to get a visualization of how small we are dealing with: the way to measure nano-tech is in nanometers, which is one-billionth of a meter. The width of a human hair is about 50,000 nanometers; so one could imagine that when it comes to nano-technology, we are dealing with things which until recently have been invisible. If someone would have come to you twenty years ago claiming to have a magic solution which could make any surface unbelievably water repellent, you would have disregarded him completely. However now that science and technology has advanced, we are able to see more and therefore the impossible is suddenly possible, the unbelievable is suddenly believable.

The relatively recent change in human perception regarding how the teva of the world works is not something which just advanced our insight into the tiny physical world around us, but the truly invisible one as well. The fact that we live in a world now which revolves around invisible forces: phone service, Internet, WiFi, GPS tracking, bluetooth, and radiowaves is something so remarkable but yet something we have become so accustomed to. There is a constant invisible electric buzz in the air. For example, the other day at a concert, the lead singer brought his microphone too close to someone's iPad and suddenly there was a loud shrieking sound. Some sort of interference between the invisible forces at play caused a fight between the two electronic pieces. Yet, even this invisible world is one which we are able comprehend because as people we were programmed with software capable of comprehending the rules and applications of the teva of this world. When it comes to things outside of teva, there is no program we have to understand it other then from what the Torah offers or from what we could perhaps glean from mosholim (parables) that we could apply from the world we know.

We cannot understand what it would mean to be external to time and being able to be every place and every time simultaneously. However, perhaps the following moshol (parable) could help. Imagine you take a full length movie and you are able to spread it out on a table, beginning to end, one film segment after another. You, being in a different dimension from the characters in the movie could see the entire time-line of the movie simultaneously, while the characters have to live through it to get to the end point. The perspective changes as one enters a larger dimension and it is unfair to use the same terminology from the limited dimension. To say that you, who is watching the video, know the future, would be inaccurate. A later point in the film is something that is only a relevant term to those bound to the film. You who live outside it could access any point at any time. For you it is all the past.

So too perhaps we could understand Hashem's relationship with the world. Hashem is not bound by the confines of the world He created. Rather the world and everything contained is bound by the structure and rules Hashem set. Therefore, it is not accurate to say that Hashem knows the future, because that is a limiting term relevant only to a dimension bound by time. Hashem is timeless and therefore takes the position – so to speak – of the onlooker of film segments spread across the table.

Nowadays, with all the technology advancements, there are two approaches one could take. One person could choose to ignore Hashem and be brazen and arrogant to say that there is a scientific explanation behind everything. However, a different approach would be to learn from the access we now have to the invisible world of teva of nanotechnology and waves and think to ourselves that just as hidden intricacies exist in the science of the world, so too do hidden intricacies and complexities exist in the spiritual realm of the world. The fact that the way we speak has the ability to bring in positive or negative forces into this world should not faze us. The concepts of tahor and tumah and their effects on the foods, objects, and people should certainly be easier for us to visualize. However to use science as anything more than a moshol and instead use it as a standard of not believing until it is fully exposed, is incorrect; that would be a scientific approach to a spiritual idea.

The reality is that it is only us with our minute levels of bitachon (belief) that these questions even need to be asked and answered so delicately. The gemara7 discusses a number of people such as the Romans who challenged the chochomim of the time with questions such as “How do you know t'chiyas ha'meisim (resurrection of the dead) is true? The answers that the chochomim responded with do not include long proofs, rather simple passukim alluding to a time when the deceased will join us again. This is because really, we have it all backwards. Our Torah contains all the secrets of the world, and everything in it is by definition the ultimate proof of something being real. Everything else is an allusion. Science is what needs to keep up with reality, the Torah is already there. Raindrops stick to windshields so a fact is stated regarding the effect of water on glass, until a new development is made or a stronger microscope is created and one sees that all it has to do with is how hydrophobic a surface is – which depends on its molecular structure. In a few more years, more developments will be made and the facts of today will be thrown out and new ones will take their place. One day certain foods are cancerous and others help lose weight, and the next day it turns out the exact opposites are found to be true. Science is always struggling to keep up with the times finding explanations, while the timeless Torah is already there. In the end of the day things exist and have the properties they do because Hashem willed them as such. Teva is all an allusion, and therefore the rules behind them can never be facts. They will have guidelines to human eyes, but those who cling to the Torah, will experience a world where believing is seeing instead of having to depend on the constant changing and inaccurate lifestyle of seeing is believing.

In the end of the day, questions such as this have little application to us because our job is not to fill the role of G-d and therefore it is irrelevant to us how to be able to explain wonders He is capable of doing such as being outside of time and space. In fact we are encouraged to not even think of such things because they have little to do with helping us perform mitzvos and accomplish what we are here to do. However, to those of us who have the questions we must be honest with ourselves why we have them.

Rabbi Shafier, in a shmuz, relates a story about Rav Chaim Volozhin who was once approached by a student who had left his Yeshiva during the time of the Enlightenment. This student said to Rav Chaim that he wanted to return to yeshiva but had many questions he needed answers to first. Rav Chaim asked him to clarify if these were questions he had before he even left yeshiva or ones he thought of after leaving. The student asked back that he does not understand what difference it would make – they were questions he had regardless. Rav Chaim explained, “If these questions bothered you before you left yeshiva, then they are questions and for questions there are answers. However, if these questions only began troubling you after you left yeshiva then they are not questions, they are answers. and answers do not have answers.

We must be honest with ourselves when asking these questions if we are doing so out of curiosity and a love for appreciating how Hashem interacts on such a personal level with this world, or if we are asking them as answers – excuses we make for ourselves to feel more comfortable with decisions we made or things we would like to do which go against the Torah.

The mishna8 lists the 48 necessary middos to acquire Torah. Two of them are anavah and yirah. Living correctly in this world and being a proper recipient of Torah requires one to have an approach of humility and fear. Humility in recognizing Hashem's fantastic and intricate role in the world, as well as fear that even the things we cannot see or perhaps even understand are not only a reality, but the only reality. Seeing is a very basic and wavering form of believing; but believing fully in the Torah is the truest form of seeing.
1Nedarim 39b
2Koheles 1:9-10
3Avos 5:8
4For example, Rashi
5See Emes L'Yaakov on Pirkei Avos who brings from the Ralbag in Malachim 1 22:38 in toeles 24, that it is not so that the mouth of the earth had a preset timer from the time of Bereishis, rather the mouth of the world was created in general to be reserved for a time when it would be necessary. It did not have to be Korach to be swallowed by it, but because of Korach's personal decisions, he fit the bill and activated it.
6In America this was finalized on March 19, 1918 when US Congress adopted Standard Zone Time in the Standard Time Act.
7Sanhedrin 90a-90b

8Avos 6:5
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Friday, June 6, 2014

Parshas Beha'aloscha (5774) - Everyone Needs Encouragement

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Beha'aloscha



Everyone Needs Encouragement

וַיֹּאמֶר ה' פִּתְאֹם אֶל משֶׁה וְאֶל אַהֲרֹן וְאֶל מִרְיָם צְאוּ שְׁלָשְׁתְּכֶם אֶל אֹהֶל מוֹעֵד וַיֵּצְאוּ שְׁלָשְׁתָּם: וַיֵּרֶד ה' בְּעַמּוּד עָנָן וַיַּעֲמֹד פֶּתַח הָאֹהֶל וַיִּקְרָא אַהֲרֹן וּמִרְיָם וַיֵּצְאוּ שְׁנֵיהֶם

Hashem said suddenly to Moshe, to Aharon, and to Miriam, ' You three, go out to the Tent of Meeting.' And the three of them went out. Hashem descended in a pillar of cloud and stood at the entrance to the Tent, and He called, 'Aharon and Miriam'; and the two of them went out.”
-Beha'aloscha 12:4-5

After giving us the Torah at Har Sinai, Hashem was ready to take us straight into Eretz Yisroel.1 However, if there was ever a time to use the expression “so close but yet so far”, it was then. Despite the fact that B'nei Yisroel seemed to have everything living with the shechina in their midst, the Torah relates a series of disturbing events which begin in this week's parsha.

In a seemingly unrelated event, the Torah's cameras turn to Moshe, Aharon, and Miriam. During the time that the zekainim (elders) received nevuah (prophecy), Moshe's wife, Tziporrah, commented to Miriam that life of the wives of those who got nevuah will become more difficult because they would be forced to separate from their husbands, as her experience was with Moshe rabbeinu.2 Miriam was unaware that Moshe had separated from Tziporrah and she went and mentioned it to Aharon.3 Hashem then appeared to Moshe, Aharon, and Miriam and told the three of them to go to the Ohel Moed. Hashem then told Aharon and Miriam to leave as he spoke to them privately about the greatness of Moshe.

Rashi4 writes that the reason Hashem separated Miriam and Aharon from Moshe before telling them the greatness of Moshe was because it is derech eretz (ethical) to only say part of a person's praise in his presence. If one wants to say all of a person's praises, he should do so when not in front of him.5

The question on this story and Rashi is why did Hashem have to say any praise in front of Moshe at all? Hashem was coming to reprimand Miriam and Aharon for saying lashon harah (evil talk) about their brother. Why did Moshe have to be involved? Hashem should have just explained the extent of Moshe's greatness to Miriam and Aharon alone without Moshe present.

The S'forno6 writes one line which answers our question. He suggests that the reason that before sending Aharon and Miriam out to speak to them privately, Hashem first called Moshe in with them to the Ohel Moed, was because Hashem wanted to show Moshe that He was makpid on (stringent; deeply concerned for) Moshe's kavod (honor).

This S'forno leads us to a much greater difficulty. Why would Moshe rabbeinu need Hashem's assurance that He was there for him during this hard time? First of all, we are talking about Moshe – someone who followed the word of Hashem exactly. Nothing that He did was without calculation of what Hashem wanted of him and therefore there was no way that anyone saying anything to him would make him feel uncomfortable with his actions. Furthermore, we are dealing with Miriam and Aharon here who were obviously not saying anything purposely against Moshe, their brother, in a negative way. So, let us re-ask our question: Why did Hashem first take Moshe into the Ohel Moed with Miriam and Aharon to hear part of his praise? Why was this necessary at all?

Perhaps the S'forno is coming to teach us the following very important lesson. Everyone needs encouragement. No matter how great or accomplished someone might be, every individual gets enjoyment from being acknowledged and feeling appreciated. Also, even at times when we may be “on a roll” and feel unstoppable, often times all it takes is a few “crushing words” to make our positive adrenaline come to a screeching halt. No matter how accomplished and independent an individual may be, everyone is hurt by insults and everyone gets distressed by crushing words; and no matter how great a person may be, everyone feels good when one hears encouraging words. Even Moshe rabbeinu who was hand-picked by Hashem to lead the B'nei Yisroel out of Mitzrayim and be the primary one to receive the Torah, was still a person and benefited from a reminder that everything he was doing was good in the eyes of Hashem.


May Hashem help us realize the power of our speech and how despite the fact that it is a mere light wind blowing out of our mouths in different forms, it has the capacity to be quite destructive by saying crushing words to people, or very constructive, as by when one offers words of encouragement.

1Rashi Bamidbar 11:1
2See Rashi Bamidbar 12:1
3Bamidbar 12:1
4Bamidbar 12:5
5Rashi continues that Hashem did this by Noach as well (See Beraishis 6:9 and 7:1 and Rashi there).

6Bamidbar 12:4

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Thursday, May 29, 2014

Parshas Nasso (5774) - You Can Run But You Can't Hide

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Nasso



You Can Run But You Can't Hide
By: Daniel Listhaus
וַיְדַבֵּר ה' אֶל משֶׁה לֵּאמֹר: דַּבֵּר אֶל בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל וְאָמַרְתָּ אֲלֵהֶם אִישׁ אִישׁ כִּי תִשְׂטֶה אִשְׁתּוֹ וּמָעֲלָה בוֹ מָעַל: וְשָׁכַב אִישׁ אֹתָהּ שִׁכְבַת זֶרַע וְנֶעְלַם מֵעֵינֵי אִישָׁהּ וְנִסְתְּרָה וְהִיא נִטְמָאָה וְעֵד אֵין בָּהּ וְהִוא לֹא נִתְפָּשָׂה

“Hashem spoke to Moshe, saying, “Speak to the B'nei Yisroel and say to them: Any man, if his wife will go astray and commit a trespass against him; and a man will have lain with her carnally, but it was hidden from the eyes of her husband, and she became secluded and she was defiled – but there was no witness against her – and she had not been seized...”
-Nasso 5:11-13

Our parsha deals with the topic of sotah – the women suspected of meeting another man, who is then warned and then later caught again being secluded with him. Despite the usual stance of “innocent until proven guilty”, the Torah demands that this woman go through a difficult process which first tries to get her to admit if in fact she is guilty and if that does not work she is given the bitter waters to drink from. The sotah waters only have a fatal affect if in fact the woman is guilty, if she is innocent then not only will the waters not harm her, but she is actually given a beracha (blessing) to have children.

Amongst the various details of the sotah, Rashi1 comments that a sotah's lying with another man renders her unfit to her husband, whereas a man who lays with another woman, even his wife's sister, is still permitted to his wife. Rashi then continues and writes, “Like the incident of two sisters who resembled each other...”

According to many m'forshim (commentaries), this last line of Rashi was an editorial mistake and placed there by accident, as it has nothing to do with the first part of the Rashi. However, regardless, the incident being referred to is one worthwhile to reflect on.

The Medrash2 relates that there was once two sisters who looked very much alike. One was married to a certain person in one town, and the other was married to a certain fellow in a different town. One of the sister's husbands suspected her (his wife) of being with another man, so he warned her and wanted to take her to the Beis Hamikdash in Yerushalayim to make her drink the sotah-water. However, before he had a chance to do so she ran away to her sister's house . Her sister asked her why she came so suddenly and she explained to her that her husband wanted her to drink the sotah water but that she did not want to. Her sister understood that if she was so worried about drinking the sotah water, she must be guilty so she offered that since they looked extremely similar, they swap places, and that she will drink the sotah water instead of her. Indeed, they went through with their plan and the sister dressed in her clothes and went to drink from the sotah water, which of course had no affect because she was in fact innocent. They were so happy that their plan had worked that they got together and hugged and kissed each other on the mouth. When they kissed, the guilty sister smelled the sotah water and died instantly. The medrash then continues and states that this fulfills that which Shlomo HaMelech wrote in Koheles3, “Man is not in control of the wind, to be able to confine the wind, and he has no authority on the day of death. There is no substitution in war, nor does evil escape him to whom it belongs.”

Oftentimes we find ourselves doing things with the thought, “I hope I do not get caught”. Sometimes it is mere hope, and other times sophisticated schemes are devised to cover up any evidence. However, when it comes to doing things we should not be doing we must take a moment to consider who it is we are trying to fool. The plan of the two sisters sounded perfect to them – identical twins switching places in order for the innocent one to be the one who drinks the sotah water, thereby saving her sister's life. However, the one thing they forgot to take into account was who it was they were trying to outsmart. They may have pulled the wool over the guilty sister's husband's eyes, but they failed to remember that one cannot outsmart G-d.

As humans, we are limited to our own intelligence. Therefore, by definition, everything we think is only through our own brains. For example, sometimes your brain registers others' body language or behavior and interprets it based on what it knows would cause you to act in such a way. Even the most emotionally intelligent people are biased with their own life experiences, habits, and behaviors. As the gemara4 says, “One who declares others unfit, is himself unfit.” However a bigger mistake than failing to recognize this is to actually go so far as to limit G-d to our own intelligence and subconsciously assume to ourselves: “I could outsmart Hashem because if I were G-d I would fall for this trick.” This was the mistake of identical sisters. Their plan seemed fool-proof and would have worked had it not been Hashem – the controller of the entire world – that they were ultimately trying to fool. When it comes to trying to fool Hashem, you could try to run but you certainly cannot hide. If one is meant to die, he will. If one is meant to end up in a certain circumstance, he will. The one Hashem wants to reward will be rewarded, and the one Hashem wants to punish will be punished no matter what. As it says in Mishlei5, and we recite every morning in davening: Rabos machshavos b'leiv ish, va'atzas Hashem hee sakum – There are many designs in the heart of man, but it is only the counsel of Hashem which prevails.

The mishna6 states, “Consider three things and you will not come to sin: Know what is above you – an observant eye, and an attentive ear, and all your deeds are recorded in a book.” Upon reading this mishna, a question immediately comes to mind. Why does the mishna have to list the three items? Just write, “Know what is above you”, and people reading the mishna will understand that it refers to Hashem who knows the past, present, and future, and will reward and punish accordingly?
The mishna7, continuing its discussion of the laws and details of the ben soreir u'moreh (wayward and rebellious son) – the child who gets used to overindulging in meat and wine. Describes certain situations where despite the child doing everything that would make him a ben soreir u'moreh, he will not become one due to the type of meal he was partaking in. The gemara8 which follows comments that one could only be deemed a ben soreir u'moreh if he is in company of bums. If however, there would be even one proper person of standards present, then the child's actions will not be perceived as habitual and the halacha would not categorize him as a ben soreir u'moreh. Being in the company of people with higher standards and morals has an incredible impact on the way one acts because it causes one to be much more conscious of what he is doing.

Similar to this idea, Rabbeinu Yonah offers the following answer to the question on the mishna in Pirkei Avos. He writes that things lose meaning once you begin to drop a description for a title or category instead. Certainly the mishna could have said, “Remember Hashem is above you”, but unfortunately that just does not send the chill down our spines. We say to ourselves, “Okay, I'll remember that”, and then go right ahead and rationalize how we would be able to explain our various actions to Hashem because after all – if we were G-d and we had to rationalize to ourselves, we would accept such arguments and let ourselves off the hook. Therefore, explains Rabbinu Yonah, the mishna chose to provide details: Hashem is omnipresent and is watching and listening to everything we do, say, and think. Not only that, but He never forgets – as if written down.

There is no doubt that this is a fundamental belief and must be the foundation of our every day lives. It is no wonder that the Rama inserts into the first halacha of Shulchan Aruch9 what Dovid HaMelech writes in Tehillim10, which captures this idea: “Shivisi Hashem l'negdi samid...” (“I have set Hashem before me always...”)

May Hashem help us not fall so often into the trap of assuming Hashem is limited, chas v'shalom, to our own level of intelligence and then thinking we could outsmart G-d just because we could outsmart ourselves.
1Rashi Bamidbar 5:13
2Medrash Tanchuma 6 as well as Yalkut Shimoni Koheles 8
3Koheles 8:8
4Kiddushin 70a
5Mishlei 19:21
6Pirkei Avos 2:1
7Sanhedrin 70a
8Ibid. 70b
9Orach Chaim 1:1

10Tehillim 16:8

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