Thursday, August 21, 2014

Parshas Re'eh - Baseless Beliefs

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Re'eh


Baseless Beliefs
By: Daniel Listhaus

אֵת כָּל הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר אָנֹכִי מְצַוֶּה אֶתְכֶם אֹתוֹ תִשְׁמְרוּ לַעֲשׂוֹת לֹא תֹסֵף עָלָיו וְלֹא תִגְרַע מִמֶּנּוּ

“The entire matter that I command you, you shall guard it to do; you shall not add to it and you shall not subtract from it.”
-Re'eh 13:1

            Rashi[1] explains that when the Torah here commands us not to add to the mitzvos, it means that we are prohibited from adding to the details of the mitzvos themselves, such as bringing a fifth species on Succos with the lulav or adding in a fourth beracha (blessing) to birkas kohanim (the blessing that the kohanim give which is divided into three parts). Presumably we could assume that Rashi would similarly explain that when the passuk (verse) says not to subtract from the mitzvos it means not to, for example, bring three species on Succos or recite only two berachos of birkas kohanim.

            The question we must ask, though, is what compelled Rashi to explain the passuk in this way? Certainly a more obvious explanation of the Torah would be that Hashem gave us 613 mitzvos and we are not allowed to add or subtract from those mitzvos? The words of the passuk sound like they are talking to the person who wants to stand up and declare a new mitzva which would benefit society, to which the Torah is telling him that it is forbidden to add mitzvos. So, why does Rashi explain the passuk as not adding or subtracting to the details of each particular mitzva?

            The S'forno[2] also does not seem to understand the passuk at face value. Rather, when the Torah writes not to add to the mitzvos, the S'forno comments, “Do not add to the mitzvos because perhaps you will be adding something which is disgusting in the eyes of Hashem. For example, perhaps you may decide to add a new form of worshiping Hashem such as burning children, which is disgusting in the eyes of Hashem.”

            This S'forno seems a bit extreme. He is explaining that the Torah was afraid of people making up their own ways to serve Hashem – such as burning children in fire. Is this really a concern? The S'forno is not dealing with someone looking to serve avodah zarah (idols), but rather an orthodox Jew abiding to the 613 mitzvos but just not feeling it is enough so adds a 614th mitzvah. What would be so bad with someone choosing to serve Hashem in his own personal way? How is the S'forno addressing this by taking it to an extreme?

            The S'forno continues to explain that when the Torah says not to subtract from the mitzvos it means the following. Sometimes a person could look at a particular mitzva and say that the reason for the mitzva is not applicable and therefore the mitzva is no longer necessary. Sometimes such a claim is general – that the mitzva as a whole no longer applies, and sometimes it is a claim that an individual could make for himself, that for whatever reason the reason behind the mitzva does not apply to him and therefore he is exempt from the mitzva.

            The S'forno continues to mention that this was precisely the mistake that Shlomo HaMelech made. The passuk[3] states, regarding a Jewish king, “And he shall not have too many wives,[4] and his heart shall not turn astray...” The Medrash[5] describes that Shlomo learned this passuk and figured that it did not apply to him. After all, the passuk seems to be saying that the reason a king cannot have too many wives is because the Torah is concerned that it will cause his heart to go astray. Shlomo thought that because of his gift of abundant wisdom he was different from everyone else and therefore felt he could go ahead and marry additional wives.[6] However, as the S'forno writes, this was a big mistake. The Torah forbids us from subtracting mitzvos even if it seems to us that the reason is not applicable.

            This S'forno is also difficult to understand. Shlomo HaMelech read the Torah and its reason for not having too many wives. He made a personal calculation that it was not relevant to him and acted upon that feeling. What did he do wrong? The S'forno is saying that even if we see that the reason does not apply anymore, we should do it anyway. Why? If in fact the reason does not apply, what is the point of playing along and keeping unnecessary restrictions? If the S'forno would say that there is an external reason why one should keep the mitzva, such as not to confuse others to think the mitzva is completely non-existent, or in order that others should not think that such a person is specifically revolting against Hashem, then we could perhaps understand why it would be important to do a mitzva, despite its non-applicable reason. However, the S'forno does not give these answers as the explanation, but rather simply writes that even if it appears that the reason for the mitzva does not apply to you, you must do it anyway. Why is that so?

            In order to approach this, let us take a moment to think about the following. Imagine you were to walk into an ethics class at a university and are immediately swept into a series of thought provoking and interesting questions. You sit in the back and listen as the professor presents a famous question known as the Trolley Problem. There are many versions of the question but the basic gist is the following: There is a trolley out of control speeding down the tracks. Ahead on the tracks lay five people who are tied down, unable to move out of the way. You happen to be standing on the side of the tracks next to a lever. If you were to pull the lever, the trolley would be redirected onto a different set of tracks. However, you notice that there is one person lying tied down on that track as well. Therefore, the two options you have are to either do nothing and allow the trolley to continue its course and kill the five people, or pull the lever and divert the trolley onto the other set of tracks where it will only kill the one person. The professor then turns to his class and challenges them: which option do you choose? As you remain observing in the back, you begin to witness the most fascinating debate amongst the students. One person stands up and declares that it is so obvious that you need to pull the lever. After all, how could you allow the five people to die for the sake of a single individual. Suddenly another member of the class jumps up and shouts back, “You mean you think it is better to actively kill someone? Better to just let nature take its course and allow the five people to die than for it to be on your hands that you actively killed the single person on the other track.” Another classmate then stands up and says, “Well I think it should matter who these people are. Perhaps the five people are anyways all sick and elderly people, while the individual on the track happens to be a baby.” Another student then stands up emotionally charged and says, “What difference should it make? Who are you to play the role of God? Maybe the healthy guy will die tomorrow and the sick, elderly people will live until 120!”

            As your head is bouncing back and forth digesting the various arguments and interjections by the professor pointing out the various defined schools of thought, you wonder to yourself what are all these ethics based on? The first student who stood up made a valid point: One should do what is best for the majority. However, without a doubt if you were to ask him why, he would have nothing to respond other than, “Because that is the correct thing to do. It is something that just feels right.” With this approach it is important to keep in mind that if one believes that a moral code is just based on gut feeling and emotions, then one has to be ready to accept the moral code of others based on their personal feelings and emotions. The response of “it just feels right” is arbitrary. Who says that what you think feels right is in fact right? For example, imagine someone who believes that if there is something a person wants for himself, he is ethically permitted to go any distance to get what he wants. Such a person could argue that if someone else has something he is jealous of and wants it, he has the right to demand it from him; and if he refuses, he could even kill for the item he desires. If one were to challenge this person and ask why such a mentality makes sense, he too could respond, “Because it is honestly just something that feels right to me. I was put in this world and it is my job to do whatever it takes to make myself happy.” Despite the two very different approaches to life, these two people have the same reason why they do what they do. Their response is incontestable and could be used by anyone to rationalize any action.

            One of the things we have to think about everyday is the fact that not only must we be grateful to Hashem for creating us, and not only must we thank Him for creating us as humans, we must also thank Him for the fact that He, as Creator of the world did not leave us here alone.[7] He gave us the Torah. The Torah is more than a history book, more than a scroll of rules, and more fundamental than a perspective on life. It is insight into Hashem Himself. Just like in order to optimize a board game, one must read the instruction pamphlet, so too when it comes to knowing how to live, think, and even things as personal as how to feel emotionally, the only way to act and respond correctly is through understanding what Hashem wants from us. This could only be done by someone who is close to Hashem, which is only possible by someone who has spent the time learning His Torah.

            It is known that there are two categories of mitzvosmishpatim and chukim. Mishpatim refer to the mitzvos which are easy for us to understand. For example, not to steal or kill are things which are obvious to us that they should not be done. Chukim refer to the mitzvos which we cannot begin to fully comprehend. The whole concept of tumah (impurity) and tahara (purity) and especially the applications of chukim such as parah adumah are more than just complex - they are ideas that are way incomprehensible to us.

            However, despite this difference between the two terms, it is important to keep in mind that in reality every single mitzva is a chok (singular for chukim). Even the mitzvos which make sense to us and we think we comprehend, are not things that we should do solely because they make sense to us, nor are they right or wrong based on our personal understanding or emotions. Rather things are only good or bad because Hashem declared them as such. For example, the fact that killing is wrong is not just because it feels wrong, rather it is because Hashem declared it as wrong. However, if there would be a time that the Torah would demand someone or a nation to be killed, whether we understand the reason or not, and whether we personally believe that death is deserved or not is completely irrelevant. Everything has its time and place. The person who studies the ways of Hashem through His Torah shel b'chsav (written Torah) and Torah shel ba'al peh understands on a much deeper level what makes things right and wrong using the tools of reason that Hashem gave us on Har Sinai to use.

            Perhaps now we could better appreciate Rashi and the S'forno's explanations on the passuk of not adding or subtracting to the Torah. As mentioned above, Rashi gave examples as to what the Torah means when it says that one could not add to the Torah. He wrote that one cannot add another species to the lulav, esrog, haddas and aravah, or add in a beracha to birkas kohanim. Perhaps Rashi chose this explanation as opposed to simply writing that the Torah gave 613 mitzvos and we cannot add to that number because that would not be completely true. Part of the Torah's system is to leave room for those in-tuned to what Hashem wants to be able to create safety precautions to protect the Torah or create other decrees as they see fit.

            The S'forno too is coming to explain that the Torah is teaching us the following. Even if someone thinks that the thing he is adding is enhancing his avodas Hashem, do not do it without consulting someone who has insight into the ways of Hashem, for perhaps he will be doing something disgusting in the eyes of Hashem such as burning children. The S'forno is not exaggerating; he is simply stating a fact. Indeed one who makes up way of serving Hashem, no matter how good it seems in his eyes, it is repulsive to Hashem. If it does not have roots in the Torah then it is completely baseless like the person who sacrifices children. Although you may think that the two are not even comparable, you must keep in mind that if you are willing to argue that what you feel is good avodas Hashem is valid, then you are also saying that whatever anyone else feels is good avodas Hashem is valid as well. And yes, that baseless argument could rationalize anything – even the burning of children.

            One cannot make up mitzvos based on what he feels is right and wrong. In the end of the day unless one is in-tuned to da'as elyon by thoroughly studying the Torah to the point that one is trained to think, so to speak, like Hashem, one has no right to declare what is good or bad. One cannot just say that because he feels something is right that therefore it must be the case. For, just like the trolly problem, every s'vara (logic) one way will have a counter s'vara against it by someone else who does not share the same feelings and therefore ends up with a completely different moral code. Rather, when it comes to the Torah we must keep in mind that even the mitzvos we think we know the reason for, we really do not and at some level every mitzva we do – even those as basic as not killing or being nice to one another – is a chok, a decree from Hashem. This was Shlomo's mistake. He saw that the Torah specified a reason for why a king should not marry too many wives and he took that at face value.

            As we enter into the month of Elul, may Hashem help us realize that His telling us in the Torah what to do and not to do is the only reason that anything becomes inherently good or evil, and that alone is the only solid base for a belief system with a valid moral code. With this in mind we will be zoche (merit) to a real teshuva (repentance) and a complete kapparah (atonement).




[1]    Devarim 13:1
[2]    Ibid.
[3]    Devarim 17:17
[4]    See Gemara Sanhedrin 21a. A  king cannot marry more than 18 wives.
[5]    Shemos Rabbah 6:1
[6]    He married 1000 wives!

Friday, July 11, 2014

Parshas Pinchas - Core Credentials

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Pinchas

Core Credentials
וַיְדַבֵּר משֶׁה אֶל ה' לֵאמֹר: יִפְקֹד ה' אֱלֹקי הָרוּחֹת לְכָל בָּשָׂר אִישׁ עַל הָעֵדָה: אֲשֶׁר יֵצֵא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יָבֹא לִפְנֵיהֶם וַאֲשֶׁר יוֹצִיאֵם וַאֲשֶׁר יְבִיאֵם וְלֹא תִהְיֶה עֲדַת ה' כַּצֹּאן אֲשֶׁר אֵין לָהֶם רֹעֶה: וַיֹּאמֶר ה' אֶל משֶׁה קַח לְךָ אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ בִּן נוּן אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר רוּחַ בּוֹ וְסָמַכְתָּ אֶת יָדְךָ עָלָיו: וְהַעֲמַדְתָּ אֹתוֹ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה וְצִוִּיתָה אֹתוֹ לְעֵינֵיהֶם: וְנָתַתָּה מֵהוֹדְךָ עָלָיו לְמַעַן יִשְׁמְעוּ כָּל עֲדַת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל: וְלִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן יַעֲמֹד וְשָׁאַל לוֹ בְּמִשְׁפַּט הָאוּרִים לִפְנֵי ה' עַל פִּיו יֵצְאוּ וְעַל פִּיו יָבֹאוּ הוּא וְכָל בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אִתּוֹ וְכָל הָעֵדָה: וַיַּעַשׂ משֶׁה כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּה ה' אֹתוֹ וַיִּקַּח אֶת יְהוֹשֻׁעַ וַיַּעֲמִדֵהוּ לִפְנֵי אֶלְעָזָר הַכֹּהֵן וְלִפְנֵי כָּל הָעֵדָה: וַיִּסְמֹךְ אֶת יָדָיו עָלָיו וַיְצַוֵּהוּ כַּאֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר ה' בְּיַד משֶׁה

“Moshe spoke to Hashem, saying, 'May Hashem, G-d of the spirits of all flesh, appoint a man over the assembly, who shall go out before them and come in before them, who shall take them out and who shall bring them in; and let the assembly of Hashem not be like sheep that have no shepherd.' Hashem said to Moshe, 'Take to yourself Yehoshua son of Nun, a man in whom there is spirit, and lean your hand upon him. You shall stand him before Elazar the kohen and before the entire assembly, and command him before their eyes. You shall place of your splendor upon him, so that the entire assembly of the Children of Israel will pay heed. Before Elazar the kohen shall he stand, and he shall inquire of him of the judgment of the Urim before Hashem; by his word shall they go out and by his word shall they come in, he and all the Children of Israel with him, and the entire assemble.' Moshe did as Hashem had commanded him. He took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar the kohen and ind before the entire assembly. He leaned his hands upon him and commanded him, as Hashem had spoken through Moshe.”
-Pinchas 27:16-23

Hashem reminded Moshe that because of his sin with hitting the rock, he would not be allowed to enter Eretz Yisroel. Therefore, a new leader had to be appointed. The new leader would have to be one capable of following in Moshe's footsteps and leading a stubborn B'nei Yisroel out of the midbar (desert) and into their next stage of conquering Eretz Yisroel. If we take the moment to read through the passukim carefully, listening to the conversation between Hashem and Moshe, we will find what the Torah values most when it comes to looking for someone capable of leading the nation of Hashem.

The Torah1 relates when Moshe davened (prayed) to Hashem to ask that He appoint a suitable successor, Moshe referred to Hashem as “elokei ha'ruchos (G-d of the spirits). Rashi2 explains that by using this expression, he was in fact davening: “Master of the World! The personality of each individual is revealed before You; they do not resemble each other. Appoint a leader who can put up with each individual according to his personality.”

It is fascinating that if one stands two people alongside each other and analyzes their features part by part, it is often very difficult to figure out which part is so drastically different that the people should have such unique features. Yet, it is a fact that people look different from one another. Chazal tell us based on the Gemara3 that just as our faces are not the same, neither are our minds. Each person sees things in a different light from a different perspective. Some thoughts may be similar while others will contrast as much as black and white. A proper leader must be able to appreciate each person's unique personality and be able to deal with each individual appropriately. His task is the ultimate challenge of receiving people b'seiver panim yafos4 Not merely always smiling or always serious, but rather “b'seiver”. A leader must put thought into his countenance depending on each individual, case by case. This is one quality which Moshe stresses as being of utmost importance. Someone placed in an authoritative position leading a group and wanting to help them grow, must be able to be in-tuned to the different dynamics that by definition exists and varies based on each individual, and be able to wisely deal with each one accordingly.

Moshe continues his tefillah (prayer) saying that the leader should be one who shall go out before them and come in before them. Rashi5 explains that Moshe was saying the following: “Hashem, may You choose a leader who does not act in the manner of the kings of the other nations who sit in their palaces and send their armies off to war, but rather act as I [Moshe] did, for I did battle against Sichon and Og.”


From this part of Moshe's tefillah we gather a second equally important attribute a leader must have, namely he must practice what he preaches. It is very easy to lecture and give commands and then sit back and watch as they get done, or disciple when they do not get accomplished. However, such behavior is less than insufficient, it is counter-productive. It gives quite a mixed message when the one preaching does not act as such himself, and it creates, whether consciously or subconsciously, a definite confusion and possibly even a strong dislike or hatred to the one giving the orders. A true leader does not ask of things he does not do himself. If he is asking his subjects to go to war, he will lead them into the war himself. If he is suggesting ways of living, he will follow them as well. This is true even in a general sense of leading, and so much more when the leader has the responsibility of relating the commands of Hashem.


Continuing the narrative in the Torah, the next couple of passukim relate what Hashem responded to Moshe. Rashi6 states that Hashem told Moshe to take Yehoshua with words, meaning, that Moshe should say to him how fortunate and privileged he is to lead the children of Hashem. Yet, it is only one passuk7 later when Hashem continues to tell Moshe to warn his successor that the job of leading B'nei Yisroel is not an easy one. As Rashi8 describes: B'nei Yisroel are troublesome and uncooperative.


Along these lines, there is an old joke that a United States President phoned the Israeli Prime Minister and started complaining about how difficult it was being president over a country of people and having to hear the constant complaints and being blamed for everything. The Israeli Prime Minister replied, “Big deal. You only need to be president over a country full of people. I need to be president over a country full of presidents.”


B'nei Yisroel is a hard nation to lead, and anyone who leads B'nei Yisroel should be reminded of this and that if they are to accept the position, an understanding of this is imperative just as Hashem told Moshe to forewarn Yehoshua appropriately. However, the correct mindset that goes along with it is not a huge sigh, but rather as Rashi puts so beautifully, “You are fortunate, for you are privileged to lead the children of G-d!” A pure-hearted leader of K'lal Yisroel does not get tired out from helping the people and putting up with all the nonsense because in the end of the day there is a drive which surpasses it all, and that is the amazing privilege of being in a position of leading the children of Hashem. This is the mindset necessary to be a good leader of B'nei Yisroel.
The next passuk9 continues Hashem's instructions to Moshe regarding appointing a new leader. Hashem tells Moshe to place his splendor upon his successor. Rashi10 elaborates that Moshe's face was like the sun and Yehoshua's face was like the moon. Besides for the pashut p'shat (simple explanation) fact that Hashem was stating that there will never be a navi (prophet) or leader as great as Moshe rabbeinu, there is perhaps another underlying point being hinted to here. The moon does not give off its own light, but rather just reflects what it is able to get from the sun. Perhaps with this moshol (parable) we could extract yet another vital property of a Jewish leader. It may be true that as generations go on, the light that the moon reflects gets less and less, however the most important aspect is that it is reflecting its light from the sun. No matter the “qualifications” of a leader, the ultimate qualification is the fact he has a rebbe and a mesorah (tradition) going up to Moshe rabbeinu. Someone who self-declares himself as being smart enough to lead is foolish and is missing the most critical qualifier of having a rebbe with a mesorah. One must not be a leader with his own light but rather that which reflects off the sun. This is yet another vital factor in choosing a leader for K'lal Yisroel, which we learn from Hashem's conversation with Moshe.


The Torah11 concludes this segment by describing that Moshe did exactly as Hashem commanded him and took Yehoshua and stood him before Elazar Ha'Kohen. Moshe then leaned his hands on Yehoshua – giving him the first semicha in history – and commanded him everything Hashem told him. Rashi12 points out that really, Hashem commanded Moshe to lean his hand on Yehoshua, yet the Torah accounts that Moshe leaned his hands on Yehoshua, more than Hashem commanded him, as if to demonstrate that he was generously overfilling Yehoshua to the brim with his wisdom.


The Kli Yakar13 asks that according to Rashi's explanation that Moshe in fact did more than he was commanded, how could Moshe have done so? Isn't that an issue of bal tosef – the negative commandment to add to mitzvos? If Hashem gives a commandment with a specific number then we are not allowed to add to that. For example, on Succos we are commanded to bring four species. Not three and not five. So if Hashem commanded Moshe to lean one hand, how could he have leaned both his hands?


The Kli Yakar offers the following answer which givers further insight into the responsibility of a Jewish leader. The Kli Yakar writes that Moshe was to lean his hand in the same way as we find by karbanos (offerings). In the parsha of karbanos, the Torah also uses the singular form to describe the kohen leaning his hand on the animal, yet in practice it describes Aharon leaning both his hands on the karbon. Moshe replicated the form of the commandment and practice as mentioned by the karbonos at the time of appointing Yehoshua in order to demonstrate that the role of the leader is to bear the burden of the various sins and mistakes of the nation. Just as the karbon must carry the burden of the aveiros (sins), so too a leader of K'lal Yisroel must be willing to be responsible for everyone under his care.


Perhaps there is even an additional message which could be gleaned from this Rashi and Kli Yakar. A leader must be there purely for the people and not for any selfish purpose whatsoever. If one stops for a moment and thinks about political positions, when a mayor, governor, or president must give up his position after a complete term or by being voted out, one will never find him truly wishing that his successor do as good a job as he. Each president wants to be the one to be remembered and wants to take up the biggest section in the history books. Often to try to achieve this politicians will bad-mouth their successors or sarcastically challenge them to do as good a job. However, those are properties of a bad person and very far from the characteristics of a good leader. A good leader wishes only for the ultimate success of the people. This means that a good leader would do all he could to try to find a successor that is just as good or better than himself so that he could pass on his charge of taking care of the people he loves to a suitable person. Perhaps this is yet another idea being pointed out by the Torah and Rashi, that Moshe was someone who truly loved and cared for the B'nei Yisroel, therefore, as depressing as it was to have to give up his position and prepare to face death, Moshe put both hands on Yehoshua to express that he wanted to give him everything he had with a beracha (blessing) that Yehoshua have the capacity of strength and wisdom to lead K'lal Yisroel like Moshe himself.
The mishna14 states that there are four types of people who give tzedaka. The first is someone who is willing to give tzedaka (charity) but wishes that no one else does. The mishna refers to such a person as begrudging of others. Here is a person who looks like he is doing a nice thing by giving tzedaka but it is clearly for only selfish reasons. The proof is in the fact that he does not want others to give. He cares more about being in the spotlight, than the poor people having food to eat. He couldn't care less about the poor people; if he did he would encourage others to give as well. The same thing is true when it comes to a leader. A good leader wants only what is best for his people. If there is someone else helping him lead and doing a good job, he should not be jealous, because as long as the people are benefiting, he should be happy. Someone who tries to undermine the good of others is clearly not a leader but rather a haughty person who wants to steal the spotlight.


When we speak of leaders, the term is not limited to a king or president of countries or nations. Rather, a leader in K'lal Yisroel includes anyone of influence whether a friend, mentor, camp counselor, rebbe, rav, or community leader. The group could be big, it could be small; it could be a less involved role or a more aggressive one. It could be at work, or in school; with frum people, or ones needing kiruv. No matter the details, the guidelines from this week's parsha apply all the same. A key leader is someone who has a rebbe with a mesorah and understands and cares deeply for every individual in his sphere of influence; and despite the trouble and white hairs that are bound to come, he remains driven with the privilege he has to be involved with the growth and helping of Hashem's children. He is also more than happy to bear the responsibilities that come with his role without any jealousy of those who are capable of inputting productively.


May Hashem help us realize our own spheres of influence and guide the leaders of K'lal Yisroel along the mindset of Moshe as he placed his hands on Yehoshua.

1Bamidbar 27:16
2Rashi ibid.
3Berachos 58a
4See Mishna Avos 1:15
5Rashi Bamidbar 27:17
6Rashi Bamidbar 27:18
7Bamidbar 27:19
8Rashi ibid.
9Bamidbar 27:20
10Rashi Bamidbar 27:20
11Bamidbar 27:22-23
12Rashi Bamidbar 27:23
13Bamidbar 27:18

14Avos 5:16

Friday, July 4, 2014

Parshas Balak - A Weapon of Mass Construction

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Balak



A Weapon of Mass Construction

וַיִּשְׁלַח מַלְאָכִים אֶל בִּלְעָם בֶּן בְּעוֹר פְּתוֹרָה אֲשֶׁר עַל הַנָּהָר אֶרֶץ בְּנֵי עַמּוֹ לִקְרֹא לוֹ לֵאמֹר הִנֵּה עַם יָצָא מִמִּצְרַיִם הִנֵּה כִסָּה אֶת עֵין הָאָרֶץ וְהוּא ישֵׁב מִמֻּלִי: וְעַתָּה לְכָה נָּא אָרָה לִּי אֶת הָעָם הַזֶּה כִּי
עָצוּם הוּא מִמֶּנִּי אוּלַי אוּכַל נַכֶּה בּוֹ וַאֲגָרְשֶׁנּוּ מִן הָאָרֶץ כִּי יָדַעְתִּי אֵת אֲשֶׁר תְּבָרֵךְ מְבֹרָךְ וַאֲשֶׁר תָּאֹר יוּאָר

“He [Balak] sent messengers to Billam son of Beor to Pesor, which by the river of the land of the members of his people, to summon him, saying, 'Behold! A people has come out of Egypt and it rests opposite me. So now – please come and invoke a curse upon this people for me, for it is more powerful than me; perhaps I will succeed, we will strike at it and I will drive it away from the land. For I know that whomever you bless is blessed and whoever you invoke a curse upon is accursed.'”
-Balak 22:5-6

Rashi1 describes that Balak, king of Midyan, had an arrangement with Sichon and Og, kings of the Amorite. The Midyan and Moav territories used to pay a tax to the Amorite for them to protect their borders. When Balak saw that Sichon and Og were unable to stand up against B'nei Yisroel, he immediately realized that he would definitely not stand a chance. Balak therefore called upon Billam, the sorcerer, to use his powers to curse B'nei Yisroel out of existence. The passuk (verse)2 describes that Hashem Himself told Billam that his mission would be a complete failure because Hashem would not allow Billam to curse His blessed nation. Yet, Billam was obstinate and continued on his way riding his donkey. The Torah3 tells us that Hashem was furious that Billam decided to keep going and He sent a malach (angel) to stand on the path with a drawn sword in its hand. Rashi4 comments that the malach took a sword because it reasoned the following: “This evil one [Billam] put aside the tools of his craft, for the weapon of goyim is the sword, and instead he comes against them with his mouth, which is the craft of the B'nei Yisroel. I too shall grab that which is his, and I shall come against him with his own craft.” This is why the malach chose to threaten Billam with a sword, and in fact, Billam's ultimate death was by sword.5

The difference of craft between Jews and goyim is one which was present and noted all the way back during the time of Yaakov and Eisav. When Yaakov pretended to be Eisav in order to accept the berachos (blessings) from Yitzchak, Yitzchak exclaimed, “Ha'kol kol Yaakov, v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav”6 (The voice is the voice of Yaakov, but the hands are those of Eisav). Rashi7 comments that the very way Yaakov spoke was different. He spoke pleasantly and nicely, and this was something unique t to Yaakov, which Eisav was lacking. After all, as the Kli Yakar8 elaborates, the passuk cannot merely mean that the voice itself gave it away because if Yaakov really sounded different than Eisav then it would have clear it was Yaakov. Rather, the Torah is informing us that although they sounded similar, their tone and manners while speaking were quite different from each other.

The Kli Yakar there continues and says that the passuk deliberately puts “ha'kol kol Yaakov” before “v'ha'yadayim y'dei Eisav” to allude to the fact that as long as Yaakov holds onto his power of kol, Eisav's weapon of yadayim is utterly powerless.

Our weapon is our mouth which connects the worlds of gashmiyus and ruchniyus. It is literally our peh – the opening and portal between the synchronized dimensions of spirituality and physicality. Eating is a physical activity, but reciting a beracha (blessing) before and after gives it more of a purpose. The power that people, and particularly Jews have with speech is beyond our comprehension. Declaring things as hekdesh, reciting berachos, testifying, making shevuos (oaths), and stating when the new month begins are just some of the many things we have the power to do with speech. These examples are more than rules and customs, they are examples of real things that even have an effect on physical nature based on our power of speech. Of course, this list is far from complete without davening and learning Torah which are the ultimate ways of connecting directly to Hashem through our thoughts and speech.

As is the case by all things which are important to do, there is a strong yetzer harah to not maintain a kol Yaakov. In the world in general, lashon harrah, improper speech, and inappropriate language, are quite acceptable. When we are secluded from it, it is easier to stay away but unfortunately this often becomes exponentially difficult and more tempting during the summer when there is a general laxness in the atmosphere that we do not have to keep to our year-round standards, and when time is spent with other crowds of people who sometimes cause a negative peer pressure.

The most important thing is to not be moreh heter (rationalize) to ourselves and say what could be so bad already about a curse here or an inappropriate comment there; for it is a pretty serious matter indeed. The Gemara9 discusses when one is obligated to give up his life instead of transgressing certain mitzvos. The famous part of the Gemara is the part where it mentions that the three cardinal sins: idol worship, illicit relations, and murder are what fall under this category. However, the less-quoted part of the Gemara is a few lines later where the Gemara qualifies that the whole discussion of the Gemara is only by times where it is a personal force or where the aveirah (sin) would take place in private. However, says the Gemara, if the aveirah is one which society as a whole or government is enforcing, or if even not but the aveirah is in public, then even for a “mitzvah kallah (literally: a light mitzva), one must allow himself to be killed rather than transgress. The Gemara then asks, “What is a 'minor mitzvah'?” and answers that it refers even to a case where a Jew is ordered to change his shoelace. The rishonim10 explain that the Gemara refers to cities where the goyim wore a less modest color shoelace or form of tying their shoelace. In such a city if one was publicly forced to wear such a shoelace or tie it in such a fashion, or even forced to do so in private – but by the government, he would be obligated to give up his life and not transgress on following after the ways of the goyim.

It is hard to imagine the extent of immodesty possible to breach with a shoelace, but nonetheless, the Gemara clearly says that even such a light mitzva of being forced to wear shoelaces in the way of the goyim is something to give up one's life for if forced in public or by the government.

After hearing the horrible news this past Monday that the three kidnapped boys in Israel were indeed murdered, many wondered why Hashem put us all through 18 days of pain along with their families in the complete dark? If they were killed right away in cold blood for not even a ransom, why didn't Hashem arrange for the Israeli army to be able to discover the bodies right away and save us the added misery of not knowing what happened to them? The answer that many concluded on their own is that for Jews across the spectrum, those 18 days was a time of realization that Hashem is really the only One we depend on to fight our fights, and that we have the privilege of a direct access pass to Hashem through the power of our mouth utilizing our tools of davening, learning and being mekabel (accepting) Shabbos early as a zechus (merit) for the boys. Now, the biggest zechus for their neshamos would be if we capitalized on the lesson Hashem taught us during those 18 days and used the summer to fight our personal yetzer harah and instead work extra hard on keeping our thoughts and mouth clean of dirty thoughts and language in order for them to be cleansed and prepared as proper vehicles to learn and daven to Hashem.

There is no doubt that there is a strong current in the direction of following the norms of the world and lowering our standards. However, we must understand the severity of doing so. The Gemara may seem extreme to us when it says to give up one's life for a shoelace, because we have fallen so much past that, but we should at least take the equivalent of what we do which is too similar to the “ya'dayim y'dei Eisav” which we should accept upon ourselves to stay far away from as if we would have to give up our lives not to transgress. In this way we could each properly reset our minds and mouths in order that we be able to maximize its potential as a weapon of mass construction.



1Bamidbar 22:2
2Bamidbar 22:12 and see also 22:18 where Billam conveys this to Balak's men
3Bamidbar 22:22
4Bamidbar 22:23
5Bamidbar 31:8
6Beraishis 27:22
7Rashi ibid.
8Ibid.
9Sanhedrin 74a-74b

10For example see Rashi ibid.
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Friday, June 27, 2014

Parshas Chukas - One Strike and You're Out!

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Chukas



One Strike and You're Out!

וַיִּקַּח משֶׁה אֶת הַמַּטֶּה מִלִּפְנֵי ה' כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּהוּ: וַיַּקְהִלוּ משֶׁה וְאַהֲרֹן אֶת הַקָּהָל אֶל פְּנֵי הַסָּלַע וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶם שִׁמְעוּ נָא הַמֹּרִים הֲמִן הַסֶּלַע הַזֶּה נוֹצִיא לָכֶם מָיִם: וַיָּרֶם משֶׁה אֶת יָדוֹ וַיַּךְ אֶת הַסֶּלַע בְּמַטֵּהוּ פַּעֲמָיִם וַיֵּצְאוּ מַיִם רַבִּים וַתֵּשְׁתְּ הָעֵדָה וּבְעִירָם: וַיֹּאמֶר ה' אֶל משֶׁה וְאֶל אַהֲרֹן יַעַן לֹא הֶאֱמַנְתֶּם בִּי לְהַקְדִּישֵׁנִי לְעֵינֵי בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לָכֵן לֹא תָבִיאוּ אֶת הַקָּהָל הַזֶּה אֶל הָאָרֶץ אֲשֶׁר נָתַתִּי לָהֶם

“Moshe took the staff from before Hashem, as He had commanded him. Moshe and Aharon gathered the congregation before the rock and he said to them, “Listen now, rebels, shall we bring forth water for you from this rock? Then Moshe raised his arm and struck the rock with his staff twice; abundant water came forth and the assembly and their animals drank. Hashem said to Moshe and Aharon, 'Because you did not believe in Me to sanctify Me in the eyes of the Children of Israel, therefore, you will not bring this congregation to the Land that I have given them.'”
-Chukas 20:9-12

Rashi1 informs us that the ever-flowing well of water which the Jews had in the desert for forty years was there only through the merit of Miriam. Therefore, when Miriam died, the waters ceased . At that point, the Jews immediately swarmed Moshe and Aharon complaining that they were going to die of thirst in the desert and it would have been better had they remained in Mitzrayim. Moshe and Aharon davened (prayed) to Hashem on their behalf and Hashem told Moshe to take his stick and gather everyone in front of a rock and then speak to it to bring water forth.2 However, as the passuk (verse) describes, Moshe struck the rock instead of speaking to it and for this slight deviation in Hashem's commandment, he was punished by not being able to be a part of the culmination of all his efforts as the leader, bringing the B'nei Yisroel into Eretz Yisroel.

It is so hard for us to understand how it could be that despite everything Moshe rabbeinu did leading B'nei Yisroel through the midbar (desert), that Hashem not allow him to enter Eretz Yisroel because of a seemingly small misunderstanding. The Ohr Hachaim3 compiles a list of ten explanations to try to understand what Moshe did wrong. He first brings the opinion of Rashi4 that Moshe's mistake was that he hit the rock as opposed to speaking to it. He then brings the opinion of the Ibn Ezra who maintains ins that the sin was not in the hitting of the rock as opposed to speaking to it, but rather that Moshe's mistake was not having the proper kavanah (focused thoughts) when he hit the rock which required him to have to hit it a second time. Another possibility is that leaving aside his kavanah, Moshe should have only hit it once and definitely not twice. Another possible explanation is that perhaps the sin of Moshe was that he did not sing a shirah (song of praise) on the event of water flowing from the rock. And the list goes on. Each explanation in the Ohr HaChaim's compilation is essentially a slightly different form of Moshe rabbeinu barely sinning. So what did he do that was really so bad?

The Kli Yakar5 points out that no matter which approach one takes, the fundamental mistake Moshe rabbeinu was punished for was not as much about what he did, but rather what he could have done. Had Moshe rabbeinu spoken to the rock and the rock would have just listened and brought forth water – a tremendous kiddush Hashem would have been made. At that moment a kal v'chomeir would have been lodged into the minds of everyone present that if this rock, which is just a rock, listens and obeys the commands of Hashem so diligently, so much more so must we who have brains and the ability to think, be wary to carry out the commandments of Hashem meticulously. Moshe's hitting the rock instead of speaking to the rock allowed only for a watered-down6 version of this logic to be learned from and therefore he was severely punished.

If we stop to think about this, it is absolutely mind-boggling. It is true that Moshe hit the rock instead of speaking to it, and perhaps it is even true that that watered-down the potential lesson that could have been learned. However, there is no doubt that a tremendous miracle occurred in the presence of the whole nation. They saw an incredible feat occur before their very eyes. Certainly it boosted their belief in Hashem and motivated them to listen better to Hashem and Moshe. So why indeed was Moshe punished so severely?

We see from this episode the severity of not achieving our fullest when it comes to making a kiddush Hashem. It is true that even with Moshe hitting the rock, tremendous lessons could be learned, but Moshe could have done more to publicize kavod shamayim, and he neglected to do so.


It is no secret that the summer is a very challenging time in terms of keeping our standards. For some, it is a free-for-all time when all the restrictions of the year fall away and we have the opportunity to do things we would never be caught dead doing in our own communities or yeshivos. For others, it may not be a free-for-all, but yet may still be a time where although standards are kept, they are not necessarily kept as high. We must remember, though, that the term kiddush Hashem means more than just not acting like an animal in public. Moshe's punishment for not creating as much a kiddush Hashem as he could have, occurred at a time when a tremendous kiddush shamayim was made. Kiddush Hashem is relevant in our behaving properly and being careful with the way we speak, dress, and act in front of the world, in front of the community where we spend the summer, in front of the new friends we make who do not even necessarily know where we are personally holding to be able to judge us, and even in private. As banim l'makom, we must be careful with the ways we conduct ourselves all year-round.


May Hashem help us and all of k'lal yisroel not only stay away from chas v'shalom causing a chilul Hashem, but to even help us maintain the proper standards of kiddush shamayim. With such a zechus, may we experience of summer of ultimate kiddush Hashem with the arrival of mashiach and the third Beis Hamikdash, instead of mourning in galus for the destruction of the first and second Batei Mikdashos.
1Rashi Bamidbar 20:2
2Bamidbar 20:8
3Bamidbar 20:8
4Rashi Bamidbar (20:11)
5Bamidbar 20:8

6Excuse the pun

Friday, June 20, 2014

Parshas Korach - Seeing is Believing, but Believing is Seeing

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Korach



Seeing is Believing, but Believing is Seeing

וַיֹּאמֶר משֶׁה בְּזֹאת תֵּדְעוּן כִּי ה' שְׁלָחַנִי לַעֲשׂוֹת אֵת כָּל הַמַּעֲשִׂים הָאֵלֶּה כִּי לֹא מִלִּבִּי: אִם כְּמוֹת כָּל הָאָדָם יְמֻתוּן אֵלֶּה וּפְקֻדַּת כָּל הָאָדָם יִפָּקֵד עֲלֵיהֶם לֹא ה' שְׁלָחָנִי: וְאִם בְּרִיאָה יִבְרָא ה' וּפָצְתָה הָאֲדָמָה אֶת פִּיהָ וּבָלְעָה אֹתָם וְאֶת כָּל אֲשֶׁר לָהֶם וְיָרְדוּ חַיִּים שְׁאֹלָה וִידַעְתֶּם כִּי נִאֲצוּ הָאֲנָשִׁים הָאֵלֶּה אֶת ה': וַיְהִי כְּכַלֹּתוֹ לְדַבֵּר אֵת כָּל הַדְּבָרִים הָאֵלֶּה וַתִּבָּקַע הָאֲדָמָה אֲשֶׁר תַּחְתֵּיהֶם

“Moshe said, 'Through this shall you know that Hashem has sent me to perform all these acts, for it was not from my heart. If these die like the death of all men, and the destiny of all men is visited upon them, [then] it is not Hashem Who has sent me. But if Hashem will create a new creation and the earth opens its mouth and swallows them and all that is theirs, and they will descend alive to the pit, then you shall know that these men have provoked Hashem!' When he finished speaking all these words, the ground that was under them split open.”
-Korach 16:28-31

Continuing in the series of unfortunate events throughout the B'nei Yisroel's travels in the midbar (desert) is the story of Korah v'adaso (Korach and his assembly) who gathered together to challenge the authority of Moshe and Aharon. However, the truth is that Korach's arrogance was one which challenged the authority of Hashem. After all, everything Moshe did and said was a fulfillment of what Hashem commanded him. Indeed, Moshe's response to Korach and his assembly was that Korach's fight was with Hashem and therefore it will become clear from Hashem what happens to those who dare challenge His authority. Moshe declared that an unprecedented cause of death be what kills Korach and his wicked assembly. It was at that precise moment that the mouth of the earth opened and swallowed Korach and the men who were with him.

Now, although it is true that the Moshe davened that it be a new creation which devours Korach, we know from the gemara1 which cites the passuk (verse) from Koheles2 that there is nothing new under the sun. As a matter of fact, the mishna3 itself states that there were ten things created on the eve of Shabbos at twilight – during the last moments of the six days of creation – and the first one mentioned on the list is “the mouth of the earth”. The commentaries4 on the mishna all agree that this refers to the ground which was destined to swallow Korach and his assembly. So, the creation was not new in the sense that it was created at the time that Korach rebelled, but rather new in the sense that despite being conceptualized during sheishes y'mei Beraishis with everything else in the world, it was reserved to be used at this point in time. New, no; unprecedented, yes. Based on this mishna It would seem as if the hole that swallowed Korach was created with a built in timer-clock waiting precisely for the predetermined time moment for it to wipe out Korach v'adaso. If so, the classic question which could be asked here is that if the foundation and purpose of the creation of the world is all for man to have free choice and to choose correctly, how could Hashem know what Korach would do before he did it? If Hashem knew in advance the path that Korach was going to choose then to an extent, Korach's decision was predetermined. It would have been impossible for Korach to choose good, because Hashem already knew he would choose evil and already conceptualized the punishment. How does the concept of Hashem knowing all fit with the necessity of free choice in this world?5

We have all traveled through time before. In fact, contrary to popular belief, it is quite easy and we do so all the time. Let us begin by explaining this simply: If one merely travels west faster than the sun, one is sort of going back in time. Nowadays, with faster means of transportation such as trains and planes, it is quite often that one finds himself to have arrived at a destination before he even left. One could leave at 11am from an hour away and arrive just in time as you cross over a time zone. This is because the world is divided into 24 sections, each one by definition representing an hour of the day at every possible angle the sun could hit it from its stationary point. As the world revolves, time advances. However, truth be told, this is a fairly recent innovation established in the late 1800's and early 1900's in order to make a standardized time for everyone to use.6 The reason this became necessary was because reality is that every single spot on earth has its own unique timezone. The sun does not simultaneously hit earth in 24 zones, but rather from every single slightly different angle possible. For example, despite being in the same timezone, there is about an eight minute difference between New York and Boston. The millions of different times, however, became impractical with the surge of travel when trains became a popular means of transportation. However, the reality of their being slight differences in time is something very relevant to us and is reflected of course in our zemanim (such as for determining sunrise, sunset, candle-lighting for Shabbos, etc.). We cannot depend on a universal time frame within a zone to set our times for davening and Shabbos, because that is not accurate. We must depend on real time based on the latitude and longitude lines of each individual city.

However, of course even as a person changes time zones, he is not really traveling through time, just as an astronaut in space cannot see past, present, and future simultaneously. Time is linear and continues forward, despite the fact that some parts in the world got a “head start” depending on where they were positioned when time was set in motion during sheishes y'mei bereishis. It is impossible for us to understand what it would mean to be external to time because we were programmed to be bound by space and time.

When it comes to science the general rule is seeing is believing. Hypotheses and theories remain as such until they are proven absolutely. Hashem created this world with teva (nature). The natural world is extremely complex and intricate and indeed allows Hashem to work the world in many ways and yet remain hidden. One could choose to see Hashem from teva or one could choose to attribute everything to teva and ignore Hashem completely.

A couple of years ago, a team at Ultra Tech International, inc. made UltraEverDry, a super-hydrophobic and uleophobic coating which repels almost all water-based and even oil-based liquids. The way that it works is that it changes the form of molecules at the nano-level. Nanotechnology refers to the manipulation of matter on an atomic and molecular scale. Just to get a visualization of how small we are dealing with: the way to measure nano-tech is in nanometers, which is one-billionth of a meter. The width of a human hair is about 50,000 nanometers; so one could imagine that when it comes to nano-technology, we are dealing with things which until recently have been invisible. If someone would have come to you twenty years ago claiming to have a magic solution which could make any surface unbelievably water repellent, you would have disregarded him completely. However now that science and technology has advanced, we are able to see more and therefore the impossible is suddenly possible, the unbelievable is suddenly believable.

The relatively recent change in human perception regarding how the teva of the world works is not something which just advanced our insight into the tiny physical world around us, but the truly invisible one as well. The fact that we live in a world now which revolves around invisible forces: phone service, Internet, WiFi, GPS tracking, bluetooth, and radiowaves is something so remarkable but yet something we have become so accustomed to. There is a constant invisible electric buzz in the air. For example, the other day at a concert, the lead singer brought his microphone too close to someone's iPad and suddenly there was a loud shrieking sound. Some sort of interference between the invisible forces at play caused a fight between the two electronic pieces. Yet, even this invisible world is one which we are able comprehend because as people we were programmed with software capable of comprehending the rules and applications of the teva of this world. When it comes to things outside of teva, there is no program we have to understand it other then from what the Torah offers or from what we could perhaps glean from mosholim (parables) that we could apply from the world we know.

We cannot understand what it would mean to be external to time and being able to be every place and every time simultaneously. However, perhaps the following moshol (parable) could help. Imagine you take a full length movie and you are able to spread it out on a table, beginning to end, one film segment after another. You, being in a different dimension from the characters in the movie could see the entire time-line of the movie simultaneously, while the characters have to live through it to get to the end point. The perspective changes as one enters a larger dimension and it is unfair to use the same terminology from the limited dimension. To say that you, who is watching the video, know the future, would be inaccurate. A later point in the film is something that is only a relevant term to those bound to the film. You who live outside it could access any point at any time. For you it is all the past.

So too perhaps we could understand Hashem's relationship with the world. Hashem is not bound by the confines of the world He created. Rather the world and everything contained is bound by the structure and rules Hashem set. Therefore, it is not accurate to say that Hashem knows the future, because that is a limiting term relevant only to a dimension bound by time. Hashem is timeless and therefore takes the position – so to speak – of the onlooker of film segments spread across the table.

Nowadays, with all the technology advancements, there are two approaches one could take. One person could choose to ignore Hashem and be brazen and arrogant to say that there is a scientific explanation behind everything. However, a different approach would be to learn from the access we now have to the invisible world of teva of nanotechnology and waves and think to ourselves that just as hidden intricacies exist in the science of the world, so too do hidden intricacies and complexities exist in the spiritual realm of the world. The fact that the way we speak has the ability to bring in positive or negative forces into this world should not faze us. The concepts of tahor and tumah and their effects on the foods, objects, and people should certainly be easier for us to visualize. However to use science as anything more than a moshol and instead use it as a standard of not believing until it is fully exposed, is incorrect; that would be a scientific approach to a spiritual idea.

The reality is that it is only us with our minute levels of bitachon (belief) that these questions even need to be asked and answered so delicately. The gemara7 discusses a number of people such as the Romans who challenged the chochomim of the time with questions such as “How do you know t'chiyas ha'meisim (resurrection of the dead) is true? The answers that the chochomim responded with do not include long proofs, rather simple passukim alluding to a time when the deceased will join us again. This is because really, we have it all backwards. Our Torah contains all the secrets of the world, and everything in it is by definition the ultimate proof of something being real. Everything else is an allusion. Science is what needs to keep up with reality, the Torah is already there. Raindrops stick to windshields so a fact is stated regarding the effect of water on glass, until a new development is made or a stronger microscope is created and one sees that all it has to do with is how hydrophobic a surface is – which depends on its molecular structure. In a few more years, more developments will be made and the facts of today will be thrown out and new ones will take their place. One day certain foods are cancerous and others help lose weight, and the next day it turns out the exact opposites are found to be true. Science is always struggling to keep up with the times finding explanations, while the timeless Torah is already there. In the end of the day things exist and have the properties they do because Hashem willed them as such. Teva is all an allusion, and therefore the rules behind them can never be facts. They will have guidelines to human eyes, but those who cling to the Torah, will experience a world where believing is seeing instead of having to depend on the constant changing and inaccurate lifestyle of seeing is believing.

In the end of the day, questions such as this have little application to us because our job is not to fill the role of G-d and therefore it is irrelevant to us how to be able to explain wonders He is capable of doing such as being outside of time and space. In fact we are encouraged to not even think of such things because they have little to do with helping us perform mitzvos and accomplish what we are here to do. However, to those of us who have the questions we must be honest with ourselves why we have them.

Rabbi Shafier, in a shmuz, relates a story about Rav Chaim Volozhin who was once approached by a student who had left his Yeshiva during the time of the Enlightenment. This student said to Rav Chaim that he wanted to return to yeshiva but had many questions he needed answers to first. Rav Chaim asked him to clarify if these were questions he had before he even left yeshiva or ones he thought of after leaving. The student asked back that he does not understand what difference it would make – they were questions he had regardless. Rav Chaim explained, “If these questions bothered you before you left yeshiva, then they are questions and for questions there are answers. However, if these questions only began troubling you after you left yeshiva then they are not questions, they are answers. and answers do not have answers.

We must be honest with ourselves when asking these questions if we are doing so out of curiosity and a love for appreciating how Hashem interacts on such a personal level with this world, or if we are asking them as answers – excuses we make for ourselves to feel more comfortable with decisions we made or things we would like to do which go against the Torah.

The mishna8 lists the 48 necessary middos to acquire Torah. Two of them are anavah and yirah. Living correctly in this world and being a proper recipient of Torah requires one to have an approach of humility and fear. Humility in recognizing Hashem's fantastic and intricate role in the world, as well as fear that even the things we cannot see or perhaps even understand are not only a reality, but the only reality. Seeing is a very basic and wavering form of believing; but believing fully in the Torah is the truest form of seeing.
1Nedarim 39b
2Koheles 1:9-10
3Avos 5:8
4For example, Rashi
5See Emes L'Yaakov on Pirkei Avos who brings from the Ralbag in Malachim 1 22:38 in toeles 24, that it is not so that the mouth of the earth had a preset timer from the time of Bereishis, rather the mouth of the world was created in general to be reserved for a time when it would be necessary. It did not have to be Korach to be swallowed by it, but because of Korach's personal decisions, he fit the bill and activated it.
6In America this was finalized on March 19, 1918 when US Congress adopted Standard Zone Time in the Standard Time Act.
7Sanhedrin 90a-90b

8Avos 6:5
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Friday, June 6, 2014

Parshas Beha'aloscha (5774) - Everyone Needs Encouragement

Thoughts on The Parsha
Parshas Beha'aloscha



Everyone Needs Encouragement

וַיֹּאמֶר ה' פִּתְאֹם אֶל משֶׁה וְאֶל אַהֲרֹן וְאֶל מִרְיָם צְאוּ שְׁלָשְׁתְּכֶם אֶל אֹהֶל מוֹעֵד וַיֵּצְאוּ שְׁלָשְׁתָּם: וַיֵּרֶד ה' בְּעַמּוּד עָנָן וַיַּעֲמֹד פֶּתַח הָאֹהֶל וַיִּקְרָא אַהֲרֹן וּמִרְיָם וַיֵּצְאוּ שְׁנֵיהֶם

Hashem said suddenly to Moshe, to Aharon, and to Miriam, ' You three, go out to the Tent of Meeting.' And the three of them went out. Hashem descended in a pillar of cloud and stood at the entrance to the Tent, and He called, 'Aharon and Miriam'; and the two of them went out.”
-Beha'aloscha 12:4-5

After giving us the Torah at Har Sinai, Hashem was ready to take us straight into Eretz Yisroel.1 However, if there was ever a time to use the expression “so close but yet so far”, it was then. Despite the fact that B'nei Yisroel seemed to have everything living with the shechina in their midst, the Torah relates a series of disturbing events which begin in this week's parsha.

In a seemingly unrelated event, the Torah's cameras turn to Moshe, Aharon, and Miriam. During the time that the zekainim (elders) received nevuah (prophecy), Moshe's wife, Tziporrah, commented to Miriam that life of the wives of those who got nevuah will become more difficult because they would be forced to separate from their husbands, as her experience was with Moshe rabbeinu.2 Miriam was unaware that Moshe had separated from Tziporrah and she went and mentioned it to Aharon.3 Hashem then appeared to Moshe, Aharon, and Miriam and told the three of them to go to the Ohel Moed. Hashem then told Aharon and Miriam to leave as he spoke to them privately about the greatness of Moshe.

Rashi4 writes that the reason Hashem separated Miriam and Aharon from Moshe before telling them the greatness of Moshe was because it is derech eretz (ethical) to only say part of a person's praise in his presence. If one wants to say all of a person's praises, he should do so when not in front of him.5

The question on this story and Rashi is why did Hashem have to say any praise in front of Moshe at all? Hashem was coming to reprimand Miriam and Aharon for saying lashon harah (evil talk) about their brother. Why did Moshe have to be involved? Hashem should have just explained the extent of Moshe's greatness to Miriam and Aharon alone without Moshe present.

The S'forno6 writes one line which answers our question. He suggests that the reason that before sending Aharon and Miriam out to speak to them privately, Hashem first called Moshe in with them to the Ohel Moed, was because Hashem wanted to show Moshe that He was makpid on (stringent; deeply concerned for) Moshe's kavod (honor).

This S'forno leads us to a much greater difficulty. Why would Moshe rabbeinu need Hashem's assurance that He was there for him during this hard time? First of all, we are talking about Moshe – someone who followed the word of Hashem exactly. Nothing that He did was without calculation of what Hashem wanted of him and therefore there was no way that anyone saying anything to him would make him feel uncomfortable with his actions. Furthermore, we are dealing with Miriam and Aharon here who were obviously not saying anything purposely against Moshe, their brother, in a negative way. So, let us re-ask our question: Why did Hashem first take Moshe into the Ohel Moed with Miriam and Aharon to hear part of his praise? Why was this necessary at all?

Perhaps the S'forno is coming to teach us the following very important lesson. Everyone needs encouragement. No matter how great or accomplished someone might be, every individual gets enjoyment from being acknowledged and feeling appreciated. Also, even at times when we may be “on a roll” and feel unstoppable, often times all it takes is a few “crushing words” to make our positive adrenaline come to a screeching halt. No matter how accomplished and independent an individual may be, everyone is hurt by insults and everyone gets distressed by crushing words; and no matter how great a person may be, everyone feels good when one hears encouraging words. Even Moshe rabbeinu who was hand-picked by Hashem to lead the B'nei Yisroel out of Mitzrayim and be the primary one to receive the Torah, was still a person and benefited from a reminder that everything he was doing was good in the eyes of Hashem.


May Hashem help us realize the power of our speech and how despite the fact that it is a mere light wind blowing out of our mouths in different forms, it has the capacity to be quite destructive by saying crushing words to people, or very constructive, as by when one offers words of encouragement.

1Rashi Bamidbar 11:1
2See Rashi Bamidbar 12:1
3Bamidbar 12:1
4Bamidbar 12:5
5Rashi continues that Hashem did this by Noach as well (See Beraishis 6:9 and 7:1 and Rashi there).

6Bamidbar 12:4

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